I'm let out 2 or 3 times a month for PIV sex. No orgasm allowed then I have to lock back up afterwards. It takes forever to get flaccid enough again to wrangle myself back in the cage. Any pro tips on getting things calmed back down a bit quicker?
Distract yourself. Do some mindless chore, like making bed after sex, or cleaning bathroom sink. just anything to take your focus away from your penis. If that takes too long, a good squeeze of your testicles by her might work well too. Good luck and enjoy.
I have some puzzle games on my phone or tablet and once I start concentrating on those, things start to settle. Sometimes, of course, it just can't be done without a cloth soaked in really cold water...
If You mean putting on your ring, A hot shower or warm bath will help. If you mean getting the tube on and attached to the ring Distracting yourself is best, but Ice works too.
I've been using ice cubes. The time we have sex is usually spontaneous and seems to always be late. So I really want to get to bed because I have to be up for work and the kids are always up at the butt crack of dawn. It sounds like there isn't a super quick way. Just gotta take the time to calm down. Even after melting two Ice cubes on my member it's a struggle to get locked up.
All natural.... She will give me the "Stare of Death" until my excitement wears away and little guy goes home.