Hi, you can call me Matt. Very new to this and so far the wife and I are really enjoying this new experience. I have the tendency to cannonball into everything I find I have an interest in. I started seeing more and more chastity pics on Fet, and the thought of giving my more submissive wife some control would be exciting and fun for the both of us. With that being said on a whim I ordered a device on ebay. When I first tried to put it on I felt like it was entirely too small and wouldn't work. (So I immediately bought a CB6000) But after doing some reading I found it fit fine. Snug and surprisingly very comfortable! I wore it for around 4 to 5 hours that day. The wife is very much interested in it now. We took it off and had awesome sex that night and the following morning I put it back on before heading to work. I left the keys with her. Wore it all day without issue and into the evening and shower time. Still very comfortable. She's since expressed a lot how much she enjoys having this control I've given her. She constantly gets me worked up and teases me until it's amost too much. So here we go into the evening knowing I'll be sleeping in it and not knowing if she will un cage me for sex tonight or if she's going to hide the key and make me please her and wait...... We are really enjoying this! I am very thankful to have stumbled upon your community and I've enjoyed what I have read already. Thanks for all the information here! Matt and Michelle
Nice start. I would suggest buying a nice chain for your wife to wear the key - remind both of you who is in charge of when (if) it comes off. Hope you keep having fun (and that first night erection attempt doesn’t hurt too much! )
Hello. welcome to the mansion glad you guys stumbled upon it. Very lovely and formal introduction which was very well thoughtfully explained. I'm glad to know both of you are enjoying this experience so far just do one day at a time and see where it takes you two best of luck in your journey.!!! Yes the nights for a little will be bad if totally locked up. So welcome both of you here hope you enjoy it like everyone else has.!!!
take your cannonball approach slowly, by all means, go for it, but just don't use it as a wrecking ball! enjoy, with her, the break-in period of getting used to wearing a cage at all, then fiddle with when it goes on and comes off. Make sure you inspect every bit of skin for irritations and correct what is irritating it, let it heal and move forward. Get used to wearing a cage, in normal activities and work with her together to identify when (wearing your) chastity device isn't appropriate. A little or rarely mentioned topic that is seriously a fair and real discussion. Then figure out a method of maintaining an emergency key for those freakishly rare moments where you may need to remove the cage, that will be very obvious if it's used. Keep this a sacredly secure key that will only be used for what it is intended for. Since you are together, the other key(s) is/are hers! and should be the only key that is used for routine opening/locking. Something I like to bring up for the newly fond of chastity, get through a clean and fair break-in period then gradually work up to a 'real' experience of a couple of weeks where you don't get to enjoy being free at all, then together, discuss what's next. May turn out it's not working, figure out what would, may turn out to be a dream come true for both of you, keep going! Find what works! Have fun!
HI Matt and Michelle. Welcome to the Mansion and hope you have a fun journey exploring chastity, sounds like you got off to a good start.
Thanks for the welcome everyone! We left it off for the night but put it back on around 330 am after my alarm went off. We read about permanent shrinkage while wearing these. That is not something either of us want. So overnights may not happen if that's the case.
Have a look around the forum, especially recent postings. Shrinkage appears to be a myth and there's no medical evidence why it should recover to its original size. Judge for yourselves
I was just reading a thread in here about that. Seems most find the shrinkage is temporary. We just error on the side of caution as this is very new. The wife even woke up to make sure I was putting it on before work. I honestly love how it feels and I really like how she's taking off on this role and expressing how much she loves locking me up.
Welcome to our community and you are clearly enjoying being part of it. You seem to be finding how to incorporate chastity into your sex play and I encourage you to go down the path that suits you best. Good luck and enjoy.
Thanks you! Yes, we incorporate it into our sex play. Its difficult not to at this time as it's very much a turn on for the both of us.
Thank you! I'm pretty sure we will. I feel very secure in my device and was excited to put it on this morning. (Almost couldn't because I kept getting hard) And my wife is loving having the control. She's normally very submissive and eager to please and seeing the joy and excitement she gets out of this was a big surprise for me. It's awesome. I'm sure we're in for the long haul.
I went down on her this morning and she came twice which was awesome! I feel like this experience is bringing us even closer together than we already are. She said she would reward me this weekend sometime and then lock me back up. Im craving her like crazy now! Lol