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    #27 MrsBR_Saiph, Jun 10, 2020
    I'd say we are currently a little more like 8ish/6ish. Very generous IMO.:love:
     
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    #28 Tom Allen, Jun 10, 2020
    LOL - it's a dinosaur now, but thank you.
     
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    #29 Miffy, Jun 10, 2020
    It's timeless Tom!
     
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    #30 Miffy, Jun 10, 2020
    10.7 by the way!
     
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    elias 7/7 on the TomAllen-Rectrix scale

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    #31 elias, Jun 10, 2020
    Great matrix!. Realistically score 6/6, although I might feel myself a bit higher at the denial scale, now 20 days after my latest release. Permanently for me means also that my Love decides simply about "how and when". Therefore, I am happy to work and serve for a "permanent improvement on the matrix".
     
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    #32 Tom Allen, Jun 10, 2020
    LOL - so are fossils!
     
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    #33 Miffy, Jun 10, 2020
    No!-fossils are very very very very....old!
     
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    #34 Tom Allen, Jun 10, 2020
    C10, D7?

    That's an interesting score. It means that you are always caged, including for doctor visits, travel etc., but that you're still allowed some discretionary orgasms. Presumably in the cage, because that's essentially riveted on.
     
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    #35 Alceste, Jun 10, 2020
    Yes, I suffered through the CB-6000S for a good while, and had a couple of incidents. The last one encouraged me to get a P.A. and a custom metal cage.

    Of course, the CB-Xs were necessary to advance the state of the art. Part of the problem was that they were bulky. The designs today, both metal and plastic, are much improved. Now you can get reasonable items both custom and off the shelf. And, the sizing options for off the self are greatly improved.
     
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    #36 Doczilla421, Jun 11, 2020
    How would I score in your opinion. My wife never unlocks me. I last orgasm which was a ruined with cage on was July 31 2018. Have been totally denied since then. No milking or teasing. 3 year locked anniversary is Nov 15th.
     
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    #37 zebra, Jun 11, 2020
    Wow way to go - you to doc appt and flying
     
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    #38 masohedo, Jun 11, 2020
    Great matrix!
    According to the matrix's scales we are in 7/7.
    Our definition of "permanent" is the chastity lifestyle, number and type of release/ relief, time caged,size of the cage,complements like teasing,spanking,prostate milking,etc.etc. may vary,but as my KH/Wife says "... I will never let you out of the cage,because you would stop being so nice..."
     
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    #39 Tom Allen, Jun 11, 2020
    Well, that sounds like a 10,10. What do you think?
     
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    #40 Tom Allen, Jun 11, 2020
    If by that you mean "enforced chastity /denial will always be part of our relationship", then I'd agree that you're using the term in the best way.
     
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    #41 Doczilla421, Jun 11, 2020
    I agree, but I respect the opinion of others and with your matrix, I wanted to be sure I understood it the same way as others do.
     
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    #42 subbyal98, Jun 11, 2020
    That’s what I made mine out of, stainless steel coated cable with crimped ferrules and it works really well for securing my cage.
     
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    #43 Miffy, Jun 11, 2020
    My mistake. it's 6.6
     
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    #44 Tom Allen, Jun 11, 2020
    LOL - that's quite the mis-reading.
     
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    #45 Miffy, Jun 11, 2020
    I was multi-tasking!
     
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    #46 TheRealAdam, Jun 11, 2020
    Men shouldn't do that :p.
     
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    #47 Miffy, Jun 11, 2020
    "More proof if proof be need be!" (Not everyone will recognise that quote!)
     
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    #48 Mojoman, Jun 12, 2020
    I'm currently a 1,2, but I do hope to progress a bit further, although I'd be happy to stay in the bottom left-hand quadrant.....maybe around 3,3 or 3,4....... hardcore is not my idea of fun.

    I like the matrix though...... a really good idea.
     
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    #49 Disciplined Boyfriend, Jun 12, 2020
    I hope somebody is taking down all these results. I want to see a nice graph
     
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    #50 asastype, Jun 12, 2020
    @Tom Allen, do you have an official name for this matrix? It might be nice if the moderators could put this into a sticky thread. It's super helpful in building a common language across all levels of denial and cage-ness.

    asa
     
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