Chastity during Coronavirus quarantine

I am a construction worker and have been laid off from work since the coronavirus mandated local stay-at-home orders. My KH/wife has worked for her employer from an office in our home for several years and continues to do so. Although we have experimented with short-term male chastity before, we both agreed at the outset that as long as I remain at home I will be locked into chastity until the stay-at-home orders are lifted. Thus I have now been locked up 24/7 for six weeks and counting.

While at home I have been catching up on many long-needed repairs and improvements to our house. When I am working inside, my wife demands that I work entirely naked. When my work requires protection, I am permitted to wear one of her frilly kitchen aprons which covers me in front but is totally open behind.

Since I am now at home full-time, I have been regularly servicing my wife orally several times a day. Usually on my knees in front of her while she is sitting in her office chair with legs spread and working at her computer. But she has begun to miss penetration, and therefore a couple of weeks ago she mail-ordered a strap-on dildo which I now use on her when we are in bed. For the last week I have been ordered to wear it continuously, so that it will be at the ready whenever she wants it, which is pretty often. Actually, having sex with my wife via this strap-on while my cock is locked up in chastity has proven to be a real turn-on for both of us. But a new issue has now arisen:

This new strap-on dildo is considerably larger (both in diameter and length) than my own cock, so much so that my wife now says she prefers it to the "real thing". Therefore she has now decided that since my real cock no longer serves any useful purpose, it should remain locked up 24/7 permanently, even after the stay-at-home orders are lifted and I return to work. Since my chastity device is very secure and my wife holds the only key, I suppose that is how things will remain until/unless she changes her mind.

 

Thanks everyone for your responses. Today there has been a new development to my story:

Last night, for the first time, my wife insisted that I leave the strap-on buckled on tightly overnight. It is reasonably comfortable and since I never sleep on my stomach this presented no big problem. My wife took advantage of it twice during the night. Once when I woke up to find her riding it, the other during the early morning hours when she had me use it to penetrate her. She now obviously much prefers it to the "real thing" and says I should plan on wearing it 24/7 whenever we are at home alone.

Since I will now be wearing the strap-on constantly, my wife wants me to do some minor alterations so that it can be locked in place with a couple of mini-padlocks. This will be easy enough to do and is OK with me, except that it will need to be removed to allow me to defecate. My wife says this should be no problem; since we are now both at home almost 24/7 she will be happy to unlock it for me whenever needed. On the rare occasions when she must leave the house for essential supplies she promises to give me the key, provided it is still locked on and I return the key promptly upon her return. Of course this now introduces a whole new level of control on the part of my wife, since she would need to give me her permission before I can use the bathroom.

The strange thing is, my wife has never before exhibited any dominant tendencies during our 20+ years of marriage. But the stay-at-home orders during this pandemic seems to have changed everything. Whether or not things return to normal after it is over remains to be seen.

 

When I started this thread I was new to the forum and there are a couple of additional things I should have mentioned. I am now offering them in the hope that they might benefit others who may be in a similar situation.

As I previously stated, my wife and I have played around with male chastity for a couple of years, but only for a few days at a time. But at the beginning of the coronavirus lockdown we both agreed that I would remain locked in chastity 24/7 for the duration. Also that I would remain constantly naked whenever I am inside the house. I have now been locked up for just over six weeks without a single release. This has created a couple of problems for me. I will describe them here and how I dealt with them:

1) Being new to long-term chastity, after the first week I began to experience some painful irritation and chafing around the base ring of my device. The base ring itself is properly sized and is very comfortable during the day, but I think this was caused by pressure from occasional nighttime erections which can be very painful. Being constantly naked helped me deal with this. I was able to keep lubrication and ointment applied, could slightly shift the position of my chastity cage as needed (either by hand or by swinging it between my legs), as well as no restrictive clothing causing pressure. By the end of the second week this problem was entirely gone. I still apply some Vaseline for lubrication a couple of times a day, but I think the skin around the base ring has now "toughened up" and become accustomed to the permanent presence of the ring.

2) Having agreed to permanent 24/7 lockup, I was initially concerned about cleaning and grooming but this has turned out to be no problem thus far. Mine is an open wire stainless-steel cage; when bathing I use a soft shaving brush to scrub all crevices with soap, followed by rinsing with a hand-held sprayer attachment in our shower. I am only shaved for about one inch around the area of the base ring (my wife likes the extremely hairy bush around my groin area). Eventually I will need to re-shave this area but have not had to deal with it thus far. My wife says that when it becomes necessary she will remove the cage and do it herself, but only if I agree that during the process my hands must remain behind my back. She says if I can't keep them there she will tie them.

3) Sexual frustration from lack of an orgasm was a big problem at first. It probably reached its peak at about the 10th day in chastity but has gradually subsided since then. Here again, confinement in my house due to coronavirus restrictions has been a big help. I am able to service my wife orally several times a day while she is seated in her desk chair working at her computer, and at other times can give her the penetration she wants via a strap-on dildo. All this has helped me realize that for the foreseeable future my cock is useful for peeing and nothing else.


So based upon my own experience I offer this suggestion: For anyone else interested in trying permanent 24/7 male chastity, and who is now staying at home due to coronavirus issues, there could never be any better time to start than right now.

 

Wow, that's a big one! My wife has already become addicted to the one I am using on her which is a lot smaller in girth than the one in your link (although still much bigger than my own cock). But the way things are now going I suspect we will soon be moving to a larger size.

Last night was the third straight time I have worn my strap-on overnight (as my wife now demands). She being a light sleeper, she woke me up three times during the night to use it on her. She can't seem to get enough of it. Wearing a strap-on while locked in chastity has turned out to be a big turn-on for both of us.

 

Not yet, but it may get to that point. But my wife certainly now thinks of it as hers, she says she now likes it much better than my old one. Which is why I am now wearing it all night long. As I have said, it is a turn-on for me too. But as long as she feels that way it is even less likely that she will unlock me.

 

+1 to that comment! This exactly describes my own wife. But in my case it has all happened in only about six weeks and not over a period of years. Although she has not yet said so, I am convinced that she now regards me using the strap-on dildo on her as "regular sex" with no further need for my old one.

 

Not sure. But one thing for certain: I agreed to 24/7 lockup until stay-at-home orders are lifted and my wife intends to hold me to it. After that is uncertain, but since my device is very secure and she holds the only key I suppose it is up to her.

In 20+ years of marriage my wife has never shown any dominant streak. But now that she has had me confined to the house and locked up for 6 weeks she has totally changed. Actually I like her this way.