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    I am pleased to have found this site. I have been into chastity for the past year, but I am having some difficulty getting my wife to become involved more. Looking for some good ideas for getting more out of the lifestyle.
     
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    welcome! Im rather new here too, but this is a great place

    there are some threads on others not being so into the kink, hopefully they help



    as far as getting your wife more involved, you need to show and explain the benefits to her, and be open to any concerns she has

    communication is always the most important thing



    good luck!
     
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    Thank you. That is what I have been trying to do more lately. It seems to be having some effect. I have shown her some articles on the benefits she will see as we continue to explore this. Slow and steady is probably the best approach.
     
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    it is

    but its also important to listen to her

    she may be worried the kink to escalate to things she not comfortable with

    its important to make your big picture clear to her, and listen to how she responds

    but above all be patient and allow everyone involved a chance and place to be comfortable
     
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    Excellent advice. This should be good for both of us.
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you enjoy being part of it.
     
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    Thank you, I am looking forward to interacting.
     
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    hello and welcome. There are several threads offering advice on getting a partner interested. Good luck
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Thank you.
     
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    Thank you.
     
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