Looking for my Cybelian wife

It all sounds good, except I don't want to sleep on the floor.

 

You might do well to sign in to fetlife and look up the profile of a fellow called Squat. His inclinations are similar to a Cybellian existence but with a slant toward living as a pig under his wife’s control. He is content. best of luck!

 

Taken a wander over to have a look at Squat myself. It takes a very specific type of woman to want to fullfill that type of fantasy, pig-slant or not.

 

We have followed this thread with a chuckle or two. Your goals, objectives, fantasies, ... whatever ... are admirable ... and they might even be obtainable. Who knows? If so, hopefully we get an invitation to the collaring / enslavement / branding ceremony.

However, since this forum is “primarily” devoted to chastity (and quite a few related subjects) your time and efforts might be better spent if they were focused to a more targeted audience.

For instance, with just 2 minutes of research we were able to come up with this recent posting:

“SEEKING OLDER GENTLEMAN WITH SOME EXPERIENCE IN FLR-LTR-TPE

Soaring Eagle(dom female)

Seeking a relationship that is serious about entering a life long lifestyle of volunteer servitude that seeks subjugation with a responsible, mature sensitive, nurturing female. The responsibility of this relationship lies with both Mistress and submissive which is negotiated and agreed to by each party in a written relationship BDSM agreement form which is reviewed and updated on a yearly basis. Mistress gathers information, giving the relationship direction, overseeing intimacy, and makes final decisions. Surrender one's purpose is not to please himself but to focus on serving and pleasing Ma'am. I would like to take a moment to express my appreciation in allowing the woman to make final decisions with input from the subjugation on most executive decisions. This Mistress is seeking demographics of:

Being a gentleman prefer from USA
Single Caucasian
50 plus (may consider younger)
Citizenship or Naturalization
24/7/365
Speaks fluent English
FLR-LTR-TPE
Contract
Financially stable
Understands and accepts the enjoyment of being collared and Chasity
Must be willing to relocate

Disciplines include:
Handyman / Contractor a must!
Enjoys being sent out on an assignment(s)
Computer and software skills
Writing and editing skills
Domestic and shopping services
Preparing meals and grilling (Keto a plus)
Landscaping and maintaining the yard
Assist with input for executive decision making
Chivalry and intimacy services
Personal attendant
Enjoys serving, laughter, and enjoys private conversation
Etiquette appreciated

Let's begin sharing information by sending me a paragraph or two about yourself. Also please send a clear face photo and a full length photo in a suit or professional casual. When I feel comfortable I will ask for your e-mail and do a test send and receive. Thank you for taking the time to read this ad, best wishes.... “

Now, how true, sincere, genuine the posting is, is anyone’s guess. Like most things in life “YMMV.”

Anyhow, here is where we found it, in case you want to look for better hunting grounds:

https://thecage.co/personals.php?Board=view_category&CatID=1

Good luck!

 

Driving an old car and sucking your thumb may not help either!

 

There's a group on FetLife with one 1,500 members that appears to be run by Cybele, but there's no sticky thread for personals. I think that encouraging interested folks to meet, go forth, and be worrisome to each other would be part of the point. Odd.

 

Just seen the direct message asking to know more about me/owning @Tim Bradshaw . As per above and as mentioned in multiple comments across the forum- I am in a long term relationship/living as married.
I found the message received inappropriate.

 

It would appear that this Cybelianism is in reality taking FD in FLR too far.
I very much doubt it would be a practical life-style for more than a few people.

But as ever... each to their own.. as long as it is consensual and all concerned were fully informed.

 

I like the total FLR. I like the one sided open relationship. What I don’t like is her obsession with being a careless slut and using males as toilets.

if she wants to do those things that’s great. But I’m not willing to risk my health. I want a woman who respects herself and me.

Granted I do want her sexually free, but in a smart way. And I want her taking care of herself. Giving us Hep from toilet play is t doing that.

That aside if I ever get married again, or even for a collaring ceremony I love the way they do their ceremonies. So some of the things they do, such as male slaves nude, and having the bride have sex with others would be hot.

 

@Tim Bradshaw, Cybele has a site on FetLife.

Not my concept of Feminine Power or Goddess Worship. It's kind of ironic, she seems to achieve the exact opposite. Maybe that's her point, I don't know, I wasn't interested enough to stick around and find out.

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