After introducing my wife to chastity we agreed that i would practice wearing the device while she got used to the idea. We also agreed i would serve her drinks and take over a majority of the housework to help her get used to being in charge. This has been going on for about a month. Yesterday she text me and tells me to put on the cage when i get home and wear it to dinner at a restaurant with friends later that evening. I was assuming when we got home she would want some type of play. Just before bed she asked me if i was comfortable sleeping in the cage and i said not yet. she unlocks me and says goodnight, i give her a smile and she says where you expecting something? I say no, and she says good you are going to lock up for at least the next four evenings and when she is ready we will use the numbing spray to have an extended sex session. This is the first time she has taken charge and I can’t wait to see where we go from her.
Sounds like you are falling into place. I hope you find a cage that you can use overnight because then it will be much closer to real. Good luck.
Sounds like you arae off to a GREAT beginning. My counsel is to do what you are already doing. Take it slow, keep great communication, and focus on her pleasure and needs... good luck to you both.
actually not bullshit we have used promescent numbing spray (which i highly recommend) even before i brought up chastity play. I tend to have a hair trigger and like to spend time having sex with my wife so it helps.
I have had great results with Promescent. After being locked up, I know I won’t last long. If she gives me a heads up, I can prepare and deliver what she needs.