Advice on chastity photos

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  1. L-u-c-y
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    I have noticed a lot of selfies of men wearing chastity devices are taken from a lower position. This gives the impression of "looking up" at the wearer. No woman wants to look up at a sub, it's a dominant position. The sub should always be lower.

    The photo's should be taken looking down, with the sub on his knees preferably. : )
     
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    Quite right
     
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    Good point.
     
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    Sadly, having tattoos from my feet to my neck, I’m very recognizable. As my Wife values our anonymity, there will probably be no photo’s of anything but a close up of my device.... so I believe you’re safe from any transgressions on my part Miss ;)
     
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    Frankly, I personally don't care much for selfies of male's genitals, though I do expect them to be wearing their chastity device at all times--and the more secure the device, the better.

    I also would rather see images of their submission and obedience, as that is one true demonstration of their loyalty and devotion to their Female dominants.
     
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    This is some great advice. Thanks for bringing this to my attention Lucy. Next time I take my verification photo I'll keep this in mind.
     
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    Or no pictures of them at all. Out of sight, out of mind. Soft little locked up penises are useless to Women. The submission and service we can provide are the only important things
     
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    If they are looking for a mate or keyholder, I agree. However, many of us are just proud of our bits and kit. Some of these shots are by men for men... and our standard view is looking down on our stuff.

    I’m not on the market but I’ve heard that full body shots, and not close ups on the gear, are more fetching. And it’s typically flattering to have your chin up to the camera anyway... so I do agree.

    I really get churning when I see shots of women from a lower angle looking up. That and eye contact. Eye contact is a real turn on. Looking at yourself in the display instead of at the camera is a bit narcissistic.
     
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    Imo. I don't think female doms are pouring over dick pics. I post pictures showing off my devices for other people who are into Chastity.

    I personally poured over pictures of penises in Chastity to see how different devices fit and what devices I might want to try. I post my pictures for the same reason. So I try to get as many good angles as possible.
     
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    agreed, as I’ve found what we think works for us, there probably won’t be any more pictures.....
     
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    The loser male should always be on its knees Miss. Like me here.
     
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    The only time I take pictures is when @Mistress Jules asks for verification.
    They are all looking down on the cage.
    I can't think of any other reason to take pictures of my locked penis.
     
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    Agree with this, if madam ordered me to send a selfie I always take it as though I am looking up to her.
     
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    I never gave this any thought. Your point is duly noted.
     
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    Pics would cross a boundary for me i dont wish to cross
     
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    Its actually harder than you might think to take a selfie holding the camera away from you makes it quite hard to see just what bit of you is in the picture
     
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    Duly noted!
     
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    Im sure she's right, Lucy normally is. See how I didnt use word usally as I cant spell it.
     
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    I agree completely with this advice, I've just not thought of it before as well.
     
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    All the key holder needs to see is a smiling and happy face. Does the device even need to be visible in the photo?
     
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    If I ever do “take the plunge” and decide to get locked, I’ll have already thereby adopted the vantage point of perspective you stipulate @L-u-c-y
     
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    Glad to hear it boy.
     
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    Not “take the plunge” but rather come to accept your inevitability and future....if you are brave enough...
     
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