Get sleep while in chastity: The protector / arch solution?

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    Hi, did get locked up last night and hand to sleep in a holy trainer knock-off I used the biggest ring. I was in such much pain all night it's terrible could see myself ever sleep in such a device. I'm wondering belts like The protector and arch like belt are they less painful for sleep? My main problem is the ring around the balls same problem with the last two devices i have owned.
     
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    Personally I only had issues sleeping with the smaller rings on. I’m in a Chinese steel cage. I haven’t worn a belt but I think that would be harder to get used to than the cage. Best of luck to you.
     
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    Thanks didn't think this would be a problem. Simply can't find a way to get any sleep don't know if just me the ring is the biggest 55 mm didn't help at all.
     
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    I have a holy trainer nub knockoff from China... I use the biggest base ring and have no difficulty at all sleeping... honestly the most comfy devices I’ve owned.

    Sucks that yours sucks
     
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    I've been sleeping in the nude for decades, so at first it was almost impossible for me to sleep through the night. Eventually I just got used to sleeping with it on. I think that a good fit, which will help inhibit erections, would be more comfortable than a loose ring. Snug without being too tight is the best option for me.
     
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    If the device allows you to get partially erect, that will cause the penis to literally pull the cage forward, tugging the ring behind it. That's what makes the balls sore. If you can't get erect at all, you shouldn't have any pain (unless the skin just needs a bit of moisturizer before bed). I have a Jailbird and a Chinese A271, which I can sleep in with no problems.
     
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    I have the Neosteel Spaceless + FUN and sleeping is not an issue. I've had a my-steel too and found that belts are far more comfortable to sleep in, no ball tugging!

    The only position that isn't the most comfortable is my stomach, but it's still doable. Side sleeping is the most comfortable for me and it's my natural position!

    If you are careful with the measuring kit and take the time to shape it for your body, you won't event notice it.

    Waking up with an erection and needing to pee is still an issue.
     
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    Do you use some sort of lube to make it more comfortable to wear?
     
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    i use the same from china and i have never needed any lube.
     
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    Don't you get those painful nighttime erections and wake-up?
     
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    I've been in my HT v3 Nub 24/7 for nearly a month now. No problems here. What issues causing you pain are you experiencing?
     
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    Yep-I had that trouble with any of the ball-trap devices I tried. I finally bit the bullet and got a frenum piercing, in order to use an Evotion Bijou. It's great-very secure, I barely notice it during the day, and have minimal problem sleeping. Occasionally an attempted erection will wake me up, but I typically just roll over and it goes away.
     
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    I never did understand how people say they don't get erections if the cage is small enough. Smaller length cages just mean it pushes the device farther from my body as the end is a inch shorter than long cages

    What I found works is loose fitting underwear or none at all. A base ring that's not too tight. And lots of lotion to allow the device to move without pulling skin. My balls are certainly stretched a bit from where they were ore chastity, which I think is the biggest reason I can sleep through the night now. Or maybe that's in my head

    Important things for me are ring diameter as well as Gap between cage and ring.
    45 mm caused me to wake every 15 min. 1.9" is perfect for me
     
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    Ironically, I actually don't mind the cage being pushed away from the rest of the body during NEs. But when I was using the A231, I noticed that I almost never woke up from the above whilst sleeping. It was kind of dissatisfying, as to be honest, I intentionally wore the device for this purpose because in a way, I hate waking with morning xxxx when it's not caged. Thinking about it now annoys me too.

    But unfortunately, the steel ring quickly causes irritation and discomfort to the point where it cannot be worn overnight. I wish there was a solution to this, as these cages are much better than the devices I was using previously.
     
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    Have never missed a nights sleep in my Jailbird from mm. Even the first night after getting it was good. Never wake up during the night. No lotion and the right fit seems to be the trick.
     
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    And in addition to the post I just made, I meant just a replacement 40mm ring that fits with the typical Chinese integrated locks on these devices that doesn't cause skin irritation.
     
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    Sleeping while locked requires some experimentation with position, but it does become quite straightforward. In line with what other contributors have said, an application of your lube of choice last thing before bed will also help.
     
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    The pain is mostly from the ring pulling the skin as soon as I'm about to fall asleep or from foreskin gotten pinched.
     
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    Think the lotion before bed might be helpful I have used lotion but not before bed it really pulls the skin at night at a really painful way to wake up so many times I normally don't get much sleep. Consider a belt without the ring around the balls more like neosteel arch/fun or maybe the Chinese the protector type of chastity
     
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    The Holy Trainer v2 works very well for us.
     
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    I have a well fitting cage, and do not have overnight issues (either I'm must be getting old, or the chastity training is actually working, yeay!). Like others have said, using a lube seems a good thing to do. I have a pump bottle of organic fractionated coconut oil. A couple of squirts to lubricate before bed allows some adjustments while sleeping.
     
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    @John dear Mister John if you have just started having a cage on in bed at nite time then it does sometimes hurt a bit till you get use to it. The best rings I think are the ones that are steel and are all round and have no hinge and are quite a bit wide but still all round with no sticky out bits. having a little cage as well helps cos then you cant get bigger at all.
     
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    Update tried to use lotion and even some oil when I put on the holy trainer and before bed. Woke up in pain again. Wondering if my sack down there is a bit unusually tight. Wondering if neosteel arch or the protector would be more pleasant to sleep in since it affects the next too much not getting any sleep. Does anyone have experience with those other devices?
     
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    If you need your sleep, take it off after peeing, right before you go to bed. Take a small plastic bag, e.g one for a slice of bread, and stick your dick and balls inside and then tape it reasonably tight for it not to slip off at night. Next morning, after/ before peeing, put your cage on again and go to work, well-rested!
     
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    Same here about my balls, it took a few months for them to drop a pot and that made the whole thing so much more comftable, however I found the opposite about underwear, and prefer them nice and tight to hold everything In place.
     
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