My girlfriend and I are together for over 11 years now. We love lach other very much and have a beautiful live. We do not have sex as often as it could be but if we do its realy good. It would be nice if she would bring up the topic more often. What is your experience? Do you experience the same things, how do you get your partner aroused and engaged?
Yes I mean sexual activities. No I'm not llocked. But that would also be something I would want her to bring up from time to time.
So you are practicing chastity and orgasm denial? I assume that's the case. It sounds as though your wife just either just isnt that interested in sex for whatever reason. Is she too busy? Does she work long hours? Do you have kids? If all of that- are you being helpful around the house and a good partner? Do you talk to her about how she is feeling? How her job is going? How long have you been married? Was she more interested in the past? Did you do something? Are you still wooing or her with attention and compliments. Do you still bring her flowers? Did you get out of shape? I am sorry, there is still too much guessing about your situation. I think it would be helpful if you would just take some time and describe your situation fully. Otherwise you are going to get advice from people who dont really understand what's going on in your relationship.
I guess you are right. There is so much information missing and this seams to be the wrong place to talk about that.
We are very buisy and her sexdrive never was as high as mine. I'm happy with what I have. I'm not not complaining.