Beloved is pierced and it’s been a struggle and experience for us both. In order for the PA to be used most effectively I want the healing process to be completely healed in order for us to benefit us for the future. Things are changing. My work is taking me elsewhere which means the limited time we had together will now become even more so. Adapt and survive. These are two words that I am having to think of regularly to make sure I’ve made the right choice. Every choice I make had to benefit me in both lives I lead. Vanilla and chastity. We have a date for the relocking. This date is realistic and exciting. The steel cage will be experienced by both for the first time and i cannot wait. I cannot wait for Christmas Day when the best present I can give her is complete domination and control. She is scared and apprehensive as she’s been unlocked for so long. This I believe will make this so much more. I still have control and still make the decisions. This is her life. This is my life. We will adapt. We will survive. LP
@DommeLP ... you're head is screwed on absolutely perfectly! For me, I have found it's essential, repeat essential, to have anchors that bring me back to where I know is solid ground. A prefect goal - Christmas.! Christmas last year for me was the beginning of my first time ever of 4 months without any release at all. I never thought I would make it. But I did. And it made me stronger. And it gave me a new perspective. Christmas is a perfect time for gifts! Go, Mistress!
How exciting! I'm hoping one day Miss will want me pierced too, definitely brings a whole new dynamic to the relationship.