Hello all, I'm here to learn how to get my wife to chastise me for life. I have tried to talk to her, but she's not interested. Should I just do it myself? I know it will make me better Thanks for your input
You can't make someone be interested in what you are interested in. If you've tried and she still doesn't want to be involved, that's probably it. Self-chastity is certainly an option lots of us on here take. There are various threads which give advice on how to interest a spouse in chastity. Have a read through those. They're mostly in the Vanilla area. Good luck
Lots of options. You could always have one of your elves hold the key and keep passing it to another elf. Or drop the key off during the next sleigh ride.
Listen to these guys, what they say is true. Move forward very slowly and respect her wishes. Even if it’s nit what you want.
Wow I wish I had a dollar for every guy who wanted to control his wife of girlfriend by saying they want her to control him. I know in the twenty plus years I’ve been in the lifestyle I’d have a huge pile of money. One would think in 20 years and with the internet the “secret” would be out by now. So I guess it’s stayed a secret. So I’m going to share it with you and you have to keep it a secret as it seems to be the norm. 1. STOP MAKING TH8S ABOUT YOU 2. Devote your life to her 3. Don’t ask 4. Please her 5. Compliment her 6. See 3 7. Worship her like a queen but do it like you’re a refined prince 8. go slow 9 see 3 10 do what she wants and not what you want 11 see 3 And finally love and respect her. Oh yea that has to come first. And respect means if she doesn’t want to do someth8ng don’t pressure her into doing it.