Violated my chastity device, now what?

Patient: Doctor, it hurts when I do this.

Doctor: Then don’t do that.

I don’t have a solution so you can’t masturbate, but I can tell you that if you stop doing what you describe you’ll be much less likely to have orgasms.

Unless your high intensity workouts involve grabbing the base of your penis, I don’t see a problem there.

 

a full belt would help. Otherwise try not to indulge in shenanigans when locked

 

Start using a Kali Bracelet. Erection situation is no longer sustainable, unless you like little tiny spikes digging into your erect cock which could leave you a bloody dysfunctional mess. I always think it's about the discipline. I don't usually (never) look for a way to defeat what I've asked for. But a Kali Bracelet will leave you thinking twice about masturbating more than once. I can not begin to hold an erection in the Kali Bracelet I own. The pain an erection causes is beyond words. Once you have even a bit of a chub with the Kali, you just want to behave like a good little boy, and swear to yourself you will never allow yourself that again. I kid you not.

 

For many people there is no way to stop orgasm. If you are desperate enough and add a vibrator etc it will happen. Some people will orgasm just from anal. Perhaps a cable style full belt might work, it depends what you define as active. A kali might stop you but good luck wearing that everyday forever.

Perhaps you need other consequences for orgasming. E.g. If you intentionally orgasm by activly defeating your device your keyholder will stop key holding, or actually make you wear a kali for a week or something.

For most anyone chastity is a just a deterrent with different levels of difficulty. Just like you found a way to orgasm with the device on, you could find a way to cut or remove the device.

 

I tried to use a vibrator and it hurt more than feeling good. Just made me more fustrated and hornier. Havent had a orgasm for 122 days, compared to having one at least 2 to 3 times a day masturbating. I have a steel cage on and its secured with a magic lock. I have tried to escape from it and can't. My wife loves that I cant remove it. She had me grind all the teeth off of the keys so they cant unlock it now. She said she might have an extra key or she might not.
In my mind right now Im permanently locked, Im not sure she has a key or not.
I thought about trying to drill out the magic lock but the heat build up would burn me and then it dosent guarantee that the lock would come out.
So Im stuck now unless she produces a key. I destroyed 8 keys. Dont know if there are more.

 

Most chastity devices are really "erection inhibitors" rather than strictly anti masturbation devices. However, if I tried what you recommend in my Ghost, I would injure my penis.

 

Thats why I wont be trying that. I was wearing a holy trainer which is plastic. Apparently she saw that there was a way out if I was desperate and wanted out. Cutting of the plastic ring and I would be out. So she switched to a steel cage and ring no cutting advised, now Im truly at her will and mercy.

 

Unless you've got one of @Minas bitch 's titanium devices, then pretty much everything is fairly easily cuttable with the kind of tools you can get in an hardware store. So though I do get the symbolism and impact of steel, in reality "tamper evident" is enough.

 

Yea

H you can get tools to cut steel but that generates heat which in turn will burn my boys. Not willing to get burned to remove it. Too painful. Send me a link that has the titanium devices. My wife might want one for me. She reads my posts on here so there is no secrets between us.

 

1. Your cage is too big. I like to think that I am fairly sizable when erect, but can almost completely turtle when flaccid. So my cage length is tiny. If you can get erect your doing it wrong (and may even end up in pain over night).
2. You don't have little spikes attached to the cage ring helping to hold the cage both on to your member (and through this) close to your body. - I wouldn't want to be grabbing anything hard at the moment
3-5. For the reasons above 3-5 are not a problem well at least for me!

Obviously everybody and every body is different but maybe you have the wrong cage. Or need to use a little more self-control...

Hope I don't sound too harsh.

 

Careful what you wish for...
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subbies ????? that are like Mike5777 are best left to their own devices.
Toooooo much trouble.

 

Some people really really want to feel trapped. Hell if there were a truly undefeatable device, I'd spend a fortune to own it.

 

Being submissive is really a mind game. The chasitity device is just a tool. At the end of the day they can all be defeated, but at what cost to the relationship we have with our KeyHolders?

 

Totally agree with you on the discipline. If a guy wants to cum, in a cage or not, he's going to find a a way to do it. Chastity devices are orgasm resistant/deterrent, NOT orgasm proof. It's up to the guy to have the discipline to not hunt for work-arounds to get off, if he really wants to be serious about chastity. I'm a self-locker and I haven't cum in almost 3 weeks since I have been wearing my newest device 24/7. But I think the discipline element applies regardless of whether you have a KH or self-locking.

I'm very intrigued by this Kali device! Going to look it up and see what it involves, but it sounds like something I'd like to try out ...