Wedding coming soon!!!!!

Congratulations on your up coming Wedding, I think the decision is yours and you may change your mind a dozen times before the big day.

The most important part is starting out on the right footing and it sounds like you both know the roles that you will adopt in the the marriage, which is a very good start, everything else will slot into place along the way.

I have been married to my Wife / Mistress 31 years this year and I hope you both are as happy us.

I would be interested to know what your marraige vows are and if you have a private set .

Wishing you both the very best for the future.

 

Yes congrats, my wife started with me wearing one before we got married but on the wedding day it was off, she put it on after though so you may want to see what works best for you both. Its a journey though.

 

Congratulations to you both, I wish you an amazing day and happy lifelong marraige together.

I say release him, I have 2 reasons for this.

1 I am british and here in the the UK a marriage is not leggaly binding if it has not been cosumated. Please see the following quote from wikipedia.

Civil marriage
The relevance of consummation in a civil marriage varies by jurisdiction. For example, under section 12 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, a refusal or inability to consummate a marriage is a ground of annulment in England and Wales,[2] but this only applies to heterosexual marriage, because Paragraph 4 of schedule 4 of the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Act 2013 specifically excludes non-consummation as a ground for the annulment of a same-sex marriage.[3] Other common law jurisdictions, such as Australia, have abolished the legal concept of consummation.[4][5]

I have no idea about US law.

2. Its your wedding day and one the most important times in your life together. Make your memories of this day the most warm, loving and affectionate you can as in my experience life catches up and takes over way too fast. These memories will help lift you both and carrie you when times get hard.

Most on here may not agree though lol and I hasten to point out that understand point 1 is a little picky. I just thought it had some small relevance.

 

Is that true? it was weeks after before we consumated.

 

In the UK you cannot ask for a divorce until at least 12 months after being being married, You can however ask for an annulment on the grounds that you were unable to consumate your marriage. Having you cock locked in chastity device would prove that you were prevented from consumating lol.

It is all true to best of my personal knowledge but I am not an expert lol.

 

"congratulations" and that is a fantastic idea Ms Tiffany in immediately setting the tone of WHO is going to be in total charge of "Your" marriage.

best wishes.

 

Annulment through non-consummation is definitely true in the UK. Although it is an awkward route to go down.

I speak from knowing someone who considered taking that route when there marriage failed.

 

Now here's a thought! Does consummation of the marriage require the husband to cum inside his wife or just "enter her"? I mean if a couple are using the good old fashioned condom then " the seed" is not deposited is it! So maybe the old numbing cream and condom might be fun! It would certainly make your wedding night very memorable! Just a (very cruel) thought!!! Whatever you decide, enjoy!

 

Absolutely. Your wedding night should be a taster of what is to come. If that means that you're in control, and by agreeing to be in chastity that's what he wants too, then make it so.
In fact, you could make it specially so.

My initial thought was to deny him on the wedding night and then consummate the marriage later, but thinking about it, any random later day wouldn't be that special would it?

Why not consummate the marriage on your wedding night and then immediately lock him up.
When he's locked up, tell him that it may be a long time until he is next released.
Make it memorable by making him think it will be a very long time, make a scene of it by breaking the key in half, disposing of it by throwing it out of the bridal bedroom window, street garbage bin, in a river, ... sealing the padlock keyway with glue, getting him to sign a contract, anything that will make him think he'll never get out. You could do that on the night, or the next day.

Of course a small brass padlock can easily be drilled out or otherwise destroyed, but you could make your wedding night an evening to remember, and he'll really not know when or if he'll ever be released again, after all, he had just agreed to stay with you for life. What you do next is up to you, but you'll both never forget that first night and the rush of emotion you'll both get if you do something like that.

 

Not wishing to encourage @bondinchas evilness - but it would only take a moment of subterfuge after the act to swap his keys for another false set which you could either break in front of him, or, encourage him to chuck into the sea out of loyalty to you.

 

You're right, you shouldn't encourage me...
I'm predominantly submissive but I can switch so I find it easy to keep coming up with devious ideas in my mind.

 

Theres alwas letting him inside you without cumming then locking him back up! I still think even that would be best a day or more after the wedding hehehe

 

i think locked men have all kinds of devious ideas lol. We enjoy spreading the love

 

That is deliciously teasing lol

 

To be honest, if you don't properly consummate your marriage on your wedding night, you might regret it afterwards. No reason whey you can't go straight back into chastity afterwards!

 

You said you don't trust him, so you have him locked, will you keep him locked once married also.

 

So, @Brian Tiffany what happened?

My wife and I were so tired by the time we crawled into bed on our wedding night we just passed out. We had planned on having sex on our wedding night after a few months of denial, but it ended up being a few days after.

 

Congrats to both of you.

I was going to say it would be hot to have another guy join you. That way you can enjoy PIV and he gets shown his place. Bonus points if you could find a bi guy to do him too.

Personally if I ever get married again, I’d like to see her do as many guys (safely) as she’s willing to do.

That said, I do think you need to set the tone for your marriage and do as you see fit. And please let us know what you do and how it goes.

 

I definitely would keep him caged. No need to give him an unrealistic idea of what is in store for him.

 

Also, I would resume the cuckoldry as soon as possible. He's certainly used to it.

 

Congrats!! Here's hoping you two have lots of fun down the road together

 

Congrats to you both!

 

Congrats! My wife did the same as you. I allowed full piv on our wedding night after 2 months of lock up, and right after I was locked up again. Since then piv has been a rare event. When we look at those wedding pictures, we both know that I was locked up, it's our little secret.

 

Enjoy being newlyweds. Plenty of time for cuckoldry later. Congratulations!