Female nudity not for caged male eyes

@Mandynjack , is censored tumblrs ok?

something like this? nuditydenial.tumblr.com

 

Well, given my circumstances (self-locking, no significant other) I suppose it's understandable that this policy would not appeal to me. I certainly look at porn and sometimes I think I do so a bit more when caged. I suspect this may be part of a self tease and denial. I can see how a woman in a FLR or mistress in D/s relationship would be inclined to restrict the male's viewing, but it seems that those commenting here have a wider range of relationships. Chastity or not, it would seem that viewing habits of porn (or something lesser if that word is too strong) is something to be worked out in the relationship.

 

I realize that this thread is more about NOT letting guys look at female nudity ... and I don't mean any disrespect for posting something to the contrary.

First - I much prefer the suggestive and not the detail - and so what makes me look twice may not be whats being talked about anyway.

Mistress doesn't want me searching for things to look at ... but she knows that I don't avoid looking when something 'shows up'. She's noticed that if it starts getting me aroused, I end up pampering her more. My efforts may or may not pay off for me, but they will for her.

She encourages me to show her the photos / artwork that I find irresistible - we play a game of "What would the caption be?".

It didn't take her long before she started pointing out to me what she knows I like - like when we are out shopping - "hey, check her out" then with a pat to my crotch, "okay, stop staring, lets go".

If the point is to not be exploitive of women, my wife & I are both totally on board with that. I think that appreciating the female body does not have to be exploitive.
If the point is to deny subs any and all 'eye candy', then I support that on an personal preference level as well.

Not trying to rock the boat ... I am new here and simply find that many of the discussions trigger some deep thoughts. 40,000 folks mean lots of viewpoints. Its so refreshing to me!

 

I'm not so sure that this policy can be applied to all and everyone.
Viewing nudes of women can be part of a tease and denial games for some. Why restrict a play that some couples could enjoy?
The same doesn't apply to porn, that must be absolutely banished.

 

Its important to me that both gals & guys feel safe to be here and welcome to participate.
If I might be so bold as to modify one of the worlds best poems ...

No man or woman is an island,
Entire of themselves.
Each participant is a piece of the Mansion,
A part of the main.
If any one of us be washed away by the locker room,
Our Mansion is the less.

 

Thank you for saying that so directly ...
I suppose that was what I had in mind when I spoke of being 'exploitive'.

 

Forgive me, but I'm a little confused.If men should not be allowed to see your profile picture, but nor should they be prohibited from the site, what exactly are you suggesting? That they browse the site with their left eye closed or tape a strip of paper over the screen? Not necessarily saying this is a good thing or a bad thing; just seeking clarification. If this "thinking outside the box" is your honest recommendation, I find that fascinating.

I find myself agreeing with @El Guapo and @Joan.t here. While prohibiting a locked male from all visual stimulation can be an awesome way to reinforce the FLR power dynamic, it's not one that I myself have an interest in subscribing to. I rather enjoy stimulating my boy sometimes and knowing what arouses him. Sometimes I'll sit us down to browse lewd art together and take mental note of what makes him hard. Especially now that I got a snug-fitting Jailbird for him, it gives me a sadistic thrill to know that he's in pain in the cage because he can't help but be turned on by something. <3

 

I shiver with Mandynjack's point of view!
Also agree with Greg124,one should be 100% devoted to one's KH!
The topic is so rich in opinions,so difficult to achieve as we are exposed from all directions,be it communication devices or real life circumstances!
I believe constant feedback from the KH and determined devotion from the caged man are both key factors and bring spice to the relationship too!
I consider too that ,like teasing,orgasms,etc. the view of nude,semi nude,particularly dressed women could be administered on selective times to boost the hornyness we so enjoy be present in our caged lives .
I can also share that in my case,my KH has taken advantage of my foot fetish to channel precisely this topic allowing me to focus on women's feet and shoes only.

 

Lol, something my wife likes to do is tie me down and then, slowly strip and display herself to me knowing I am helpless and can’t touch her.

She will put her breast or vagina just out of reach of my mouth and make me strain to try to touch her.


The definition of tease and denial.

 

I am all about FLR ... in more than just relationships. I would like to see this extend into societal norms.

Go back far enough ... when human populations reached a certain level, we no longer could maintain a purely migratory existence - we started to settle down to regional habitation.
This 'dawn of civilization' saw men fill a niche of defending the groups region - or to seize someone else's area (necessitating the defense thereof). In a way, we were the creators of 'war'.
Women settled into making the area productive - and so 'agriculture' was born - thank you ladies.

The balance of God/Goddess (not a religious thing) has gone further and further off kilter. I believe that we need to get that balance back & giving the reins to the ones more 'dialed in' is the key.

I for one never interpreted anyone here as draconian ...
Thats the joy of so many varying opinions taking what you want and leaving the rest.

I mean no cross-talk when I say that I've noticed I tend to gravitate to some of the 'stricter' women who post here ... I find a lot of their ideas and methods very much to my liking. I can't say why - maybe because there is a part of me that craves being controlled in more ways than I am.

Sweet mother of Abraham Lincoln!
I absolutely LOVE when a woman capitalizes on my helplessness ...

 

my KH wants me to look at naked women as she knows it is torture since i am not getting released anyway

 

Oh @the glove

 

I can also share that in my case,my KH has taken advantage of my foot fetish to channel precisely this topic allowing me to focus on women's feet and shoes only.

i have the same foot fetish she sends me pics of womens feet to drive me insane

 

Lol! Thank you Mandynjack!
Throughout the years I have been allowed to put together several thousands ! of female feet& shoe pictures collection which is projected while I am prostate milked!!
Yes,you can condition your sub to not look at nude females, giving him an alternative pleasure, in my case feet!

 

I am certain thats why for me too ...
She knows only too well that the more desperate I get, the more she benefits.
Since I can't beg, ask or imply I want a release, all I can do is crank up my servitude.

She knows how those dynamics work as well as I do ... better maybe!.
The more I crave an O., the less clearly I can think ..she knows that & takes every advantage of it.

 

It would be quite difficult to eliminate viewing the beautiful, naked Female form.

Even in every day life (on the streets, in the mall, etc.) a view of the clothed Female form can still be quite arousing. In fact, for me it is more of a turn on to see a Female in a tight outfit, withholding Her naked beauty from my curious eyes.

As some have mentioned in this thread, it can only increase the frustration level. Nakedness would lead one to think of sex. When one is provided, but not the other, it gets my blood flowing and increases my desire for a release.

Princess uses Her voice and Her teasing words to lead me on, hinting that I may be allowed to release soon, before denying me again.

 

Yes. this is what I mean by "the suggestive & not the detail".
Tight, wispy, sheer, draping, shadowy through the sunlight, flattened by a breeze, etc.
Damn! Just thinking about it ...

Again, yes.
I became a fan of TND when I felt that frustration ... and when my original Mistress took advantage of my frustrations. That was decades ago.
When we first got together, my wife/Mistress 'played along' because it was what I wanted (and it was fun for her in some ways).
Today, my wife/Mistress has grown to enjoy the power she holds over me. My frustrations (both at her hand and the sights to be seen) are contributing factors for her arousal.

 

Exactly. Frustration will trigger my wanting for release, which in turn gifts Her more power over me. And more power for Her is a win/win for both of Us/us.

 

So i do not allow Bobbi watching female nudity anymore.I think it‘s the right way for me. And for my little Sissyboi.
But he is allowed to worship women’s feet,and the avatar drive him crazy to.

 

I am new to the CM, just joined today, and I find your idea interesting. This is one of the first threads I have read. My KH is in another country, so she uses nudity for edging, and tease & denial tools. I only view what I would classify as art nudes, or glamour nudes, not porn.