would you still choose chastity?

Was my choice the first time it was locked on. My wife likes it so much that she wont take it off. She says that it protects what is hers. I dont mind right now to be honest but not having any say as to when it might come off has me a bit nervous.

 

You left out “I would have suggested it sooner.”

 

also obviously omitted
... it was initially his or her idea to experiment with locking and or denail....
and ...
...my or his being denied and locked for the first time was a mutual decision.

Also are you asking the couple or individualsl? If so are you asking both the locked and and the lockers?

The first time my then wife and I first tried denial with a device it was a mutual decision. Subsequent partners it has been down to me to introduce the subject which although it has always been accepted has been met with varying degrees of initial enthusiasm. What should I tick?

 

Depends on what time of the day it is. Sitting at home, alone, wanting to play with myself, but knowing I can’t I sometimes wonder if this is something I should have just not told her about. Especially when I think of the future and what I may never do again.

It has been about 2 years since we started dating, and since initially we had sex so much, I had not masturbated during the time we started seeing each other till the time I was in chastity. Since I have been locked I have not gotten myself off. I went from daily orgasms touching myself to roughly once or twice a month and only she touches it...then I start thinking...am I ever going to get myself off again? In the 20 months since I’ve worn a cage she’s never hinted at taking it off for awhile, or giving a free pass to jerk off, the last time I held it hard was 19 months ago when she wanted me to ruin an orgasm for her.

Then I think about the non sexual details that I realize will more than likely be forever. Sitting to pee, Asking if I can cum, leaking all day, and in general being horny all the time.

Most of these thoughts come and go fairly quickly. We are both happier this way so I have no regrets, that doesn’t mean I don’t daily wonder what I got myself into lol!

 

I'm pretty much in the same boat to be honest. I'm locked to protect me and her property from all those wicked women who might take advantage of me! Not knowing when it comes off certainly gives me butterflies, but in a nice way!

 

From my perspective it was the initial reaction that I was wary of. That said once that was out of the way my wife no decides lock/unlock and duration and I love it.

 

There are times when I go back and forth on wanting to be locked but in the end I always want to be mistress's bitch and locked back up.

 

Since this is the longest I've ever been locked, and it's not very long, I don't feel like I've truly earned the right to comment but I will anyway. Yesterday I would have easily said yes, the first 24 hours were exhilarating, and calm at the same time. Today, is different, it's exhilarating but I can't help but get aroused every 10 seconds and want to rip the cage off.

The answer just an FYI is absolutely. I just find it funny how 12 additional hours changes everything. I've been in almost 36 hours now and I can feel a major difference. I'm already much more attentive to her needs, and doing what I can to be even sweeter than normal. Right now all I wanna do is cuddle with her and make her feel special and maybe a little more satisfied.

 

It was her choice for me to be locked up. It has enhanced our life in and out of the bedroom and allowed us to explore other areas of the lifestyle. I have become her little femboi and we both love it.

 

i wish I had known about this when my ex girlfried and I were still together.we probably would still be together.
I miss her and I would have done anything to make her happy

 

It seems from the poll that almost everyone who has tried male chastity approves of the result. Like boisub and tiemeupalso I wish I had got involved a lot earlier, even though it's ten years already.
It's so hot to think about being in chastity when first married and how my wife would/could have enjoyed that.

 

In the beginning it was more a game for us,but soon it changed in our lifestyle,and @Goddess Sara
Become more and more dominant,so it was not my choice anymore being locked.
It´s only her choice now,and i obey my Goddess.

 

Well, you've got to view the results in light of the fact that most people who regret playing with chastity are unlikely to remain active on CM.

 

Well in brief I love the head-fuck of at times really feeling the need to come and wishing I could and then when all calms down again and the normal desire to come takes over being grateful I was controlled and denied, I'm back to 24/7 being horny and no drop time.
Why would I want to change that?

 

The only thing I would change would be to find a way to get my wife to hold the keys!

 

This is my new way of life and I wouldn't want to go back. On the rare occasions that I'm Unlocked I feel almost naked like I'm missing part of me. I welcome the security and comfort of being locked up again. I'm a better person since my wife has taken control of my Orgasms. Masturbating all the time isn't the best way to spend your life. Being teased ,wet and excited is much better.

 

The first couple of days are exciting. After that I really have a need/want to get an erection. Don't need to cum (though that would be nice) but really want a hard-on. That's when the fun for my wife starts. Have gone as long as 106 days (not that we count ~ ) and as someone else said, feel naked and left alone when uncaged for any period of time. This is when I start hinting (OK, not so subtly) that maybe we should start up again.

My wife likes it since it keeps me from playing with myself (which is really nice to do) and focused on work and her.

 

I wouldn't go back now.
I have actually gone back slightly in that I'm more vanilla these days. i suppose after trying lots of things I've found simple ways to feed my desires.
But don't like the idea of being in a relationship with a man who is not in chastity. That is one thing that is definitely here to stay.

 

That's because the poll has a big flaw: Everyone who wouldn't do it again has left chastitymansion and other websites about chastity long ago...

As for my own answer: I would not change a thing - though I would rather say that about living in a FLR - chastity just beeing some small part of it.

 

i agree with @boisub, would have introduced it sooner! best thing that happened to our sexual relationship.