Tonight we still have family in town from the holidays...I've been locked 3 days, last time was 2 days and first ever. We got a sitter and had adult night at a bar and then a restaurant. It was nice...we were happy to sit through old tales of her family's past...just for context her dad's close call with being infantry in the Vietnam war. So to fast forward 3 or 4 drinks later we are driving home and she starts expressing love like you do on a night like this...we exchange a couple of niceties and she says "maybe I'll unlock you for a bit tonight"....oh man how sweet. The girlish nonchalance with which my "submissive" wife would imply to decide whether I get to have my manhood out of a cage. I told her how sexy that statement was and she said "well you've been a really good boy (her period is coming early) and you deserve some fun before my down time. I've had a few drinks but for me,this is so much what it's all about...hearing that girl inside her decide that you've done what it takes for her to want you. It really is like being a kid again...tell your wives!!!