question about PA from newbie

1. At least in the US this is typically done in a piercing/tattoo shop. It's a simple 10 minute process, very little pain.
2. You can get an infection or health issues, especially if you use a disreputable or inexperienced piercer, or don't follow the aftercare/healing instructions. Do your research! It's a very simple pierce, so if your piercer is experienced and and using sterile tools and you follow the healing instructions, you'll be fine
3. It depends on how long you've had it, and how big you've stretched it. In the first few months, if you take the jewelry out, it can close up in a matter of minutes on some people. Even after a long time, if you haven't stretched it too large, it can close up on you if you don't keep something in it.

 

I had a 4 month old 2 gauge piercing close up completely within 48 hours.
Here's a good place to start when searching for a studio: http://www.safepiercing.org/get-involved/locate-a-member/searchable-member-database/

 

I don't like pushing for getting a body mod, such a personal issue...but, if your mistress has been asking about it, she's pretty serious and you might want to consider your future with her and chastity.

That said my mistress was mostly intrigued that I would do that for her, not super into the piercing. She now loves it. She said she can feel it rub her g spot and she likes how it looks...kinda marked for her.

Go to a piercer that is experienced, they will usually have a page on Facebook or have reviews online.

Don't rush recovery or stretching and follow instructions and everything should work out well.

Good luck

 

I have had my PA for about 11 years. I've streach it out to a 0g but now I wear a 2g. I took it out for 2 days and had to go back down to a 6g but quickly got back to the 0g.

 

The 1 second of that sharp pain is worth never having to use a ball trap device. I did have my glans armor modified to make the ball trap optional and have the key for that part but not the PA lock, that way if it bugs me I take the ball trap off. that also makes using my fleshlight imposible. the point of no return for me was 4 gauge. I have worn a non PA cage for a week and the 4g PA went back in like butter. At 6g it would be hard to get it back in after 12 hours. had my PA done a couple years ago, 5/8" back.

 

I had a 6g pa for almost a year. I took it out and then about 8-10 months later, out of curiosity, I poked a 14g taper through it. To my surprise it never fully healed closed. I left a 14g bar in for a day or two and I've been bumping it up ever since.

I should hit 4g a month or so before the lori device arrives so that will be neat.