This one is my bf's account. He has been locked since the last 21 days but according to the time I decided , he has 2 more months to go. Should he be unlocked now? Need help? Or should I be strict?
If he has been in the cage the whole time without getting out at all, you may want to take him out for you to use, not a allow him a full orgasm, then put him back. Remember you can do what you want at any time. If he has been good through his 21 days, you can use it as a reward if you like. My Darling has been in his cage since 8/6 and will not get an ejaculation until 11/12. But he has had 5 ruined orgasms since 8/6. 3 of those were during Lockober since we have been following @keephimcaged blog. I was able to give him a ruined in his cage, this was a first for me.
I think that you should stick to it if that's what you told him. It's always best to establish your control without waivering. You wouldn't want him to expect you to let him out early every time! He will start pestering you more and feel that he can control the situation. After this period you can decide if that was longer than you want in the future. Just my .02. Have fun!
You should be very strict,and stick to the time frame that he agreed upon from the start. He agreed to it and asked for it!! You don't want him to see you as weak, show him who is in control. Maybe let him out a couple of times a day to edge that will make it much more intense for him. But otherwise don't let him out no matter how much he begs!
Thank you for the wonderful replies. I told him that he will be getting out today. Unlocked him ,fed him Viagra, licked the tip of his cock for hours, caressed it using my lips leaving lipstick marks on it. Locked it back, wet from my mouth,kissing him and telling him to enjoy his chastity. It will be 3 more months for him now.
Ive been told No Chance !! as I was the one who first mentioned Locktober and must learn a lesson from it, moving on into NoOvember
Cant help it. I did all that to him for hours, Will do that for more 3 months till i extend it to once a year. He's lucky to feel my pink glossed saliva around his dickky when locked up.
So you got the NoOvenber to.... My wife Also told my i be getting no tutching november as well for beenig a bad boy and tutching hear unappropriate in public. To the topic. You do what you want. Just be a bitt carefull not to macke him not want chastity more.
If he piles up a long period of chastity, I give him a chance to work off some of it. He can get a couple of weeks off for sissy maid service for me and some of my friends. Getting spanked in front of a friend can get him a week off. A little while ago, I bought a wood paddle that, shall we say, is very good at getting my point across. A trip across my lap with this special paddle can get him 3 or 4 days off, depending on what I say. He usually chooses the chastity over that paddle, but sometimes he's piled up so much he has to take the paddle. While I've taught myself to be strong when keeping him locked up, there are times I have to make him work off some of the chastity time because I start climbing the walls.