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    #1 MistressDee, Jul 19, 2016
    I am trying to find ways on how to punish my boyfriend without the punishment making him sexually aroused. He is wearing a chastity, but when he does something wrong or doesn't follow the rules, i need to punish him.

    He has told me he would not like to be caned, but I am also looking for other punishment ideas
    please let me know what you have done to punish your partner or make them pay for not following your rules.
     
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    #2 Sissy4dee, Jul 19, 2016
    I am said boyfriend. I enjoy nearly all fetishes, and hence it is difficult to find a punishment to suit me. My mistress would appreciate suggestions on how she can punish me for disobeying her rules. please help me be a good boy
     
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    #3 salonslave, Jul 19, 2016
    A very effective punishment that is both dehumanizing and painful is to have him wear either an electric sauna belt or a heating pad against his butt under a girdle. Either way, it is not only a reminder that he must suffer for his wrongdoing, but his being required to stay plugged in makes his him participe in his own punishment. Leave him the choice to use a long cord that reaches several rooms or a short cord that he must constantly unplug and replug. Either way he is tethered like a dog on a chain, but he will suffer from multiple reasons. He is allowed the freedom to go anywhere in the house or outside as long as he stays plugged in.
    A bonus for you is that you do not need to be haughty to him while he is undergoing punishment. You can be as sweet as pie to him and even taunt him by saying that you feel sorry for the predicament he has gotten himself into.
    I have been the recipient of this punishment and it completely messes up my mind and engenders respect for my wife.
    Ss
     
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    #4 Burger_01, Jul 19, 2016
    I reckon the best punishment for someone who enjoys all fetish activities is.... Nothing at all!

    Give him some corner time, tell him to think about why he's disappointed you and let you down. Tell him to think of how he's going to make it up to you.
     
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    #5 MistressDee, Jul 19, 2016
    I don't want him to think he can do it again though, and if he is going to have no punishment then he might break the rules @Burger_01
     
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    #6 spider203, Jul 19, 2016
    what about a shock collar with a lock fitted just in the house. Short sharp pain but mild that would not cause any damage.
     
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    #7 lock667, Jul 19, 2016
    Get a piece of plywood about 4'x4'. Put a hitching ring dead center. Have him stand on the board over the ring. Cuff his hands to a collar, then have him crouch, and tie his chastity cage to the hitching ring so he can't stand up. 4 or 5 hours of that should make him understand what not to do.

    Or go with the silent treatment, that works too.
     
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    #8 Sissy maid doris, Jul 19, 2016
    If I'm naughty I get my head shaved balld
     
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    #9 Sissy maid doris, Jul 19, 2016
    Bald darn predictive text
     
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    #10 DonnaSue, Jul 19, 2016
    I have been locked in Her KTB on a couple of occasions and it is pure hell. Makes me never want to do the bad deed again. A side benefit is that She leaves it out on her dresser so that I see it all the time as I walk by and it reminds me of that pain. It's a silent reminder for me that has prevented many errors. Also, She knows how much I enjoy wearing my lingerie so another punishment that I get for minor infractions is to be required to wear men's boxer shorts for a day!
     
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    #11 Jasmic68, Jul 19, 2016
    My Wife ignoring me would be the worst possible punishment. I would feel lost and helpless.
     
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    #12 Submissive Guy, Jul 20, 2016
    How about giving him a ginger suppository. That will remove any sexual arousal.
     
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    #13 Junebug15, Jul 20, 2016
    I want
     
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    #14 AlanThom, Jul 20, 2016
    Devious..... Love it!!
     
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    #15 gehorsam, Jul 20, 2016
    My wife's favorites are ginger root plug with a long otk spanking, or coating her penis in icy hot and then putting it back in the cage and leaving me tied to the bed while she watches tv and sometimes she will first finger me using toothpaste as lube. So my front and rear burn horribly and I beg for forgiveness.

    But I think the worst for me and she's only done this once. She bought an inflatable enema plug, put me in a humbler with my hands cuffed behind my back. Then filled me till i just couldn't take more. Then left me for what seemed like hours was like 30 minutes. When she came back she had her strap on on and threatened to fuck me while I was full to make her point.

    I enjoy a lot of things but the last two I absolutely hate and avoid at all costs.
     
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    #16 AlanThom, Jul 20, 2016
    I dont blame you a bit on that.
     
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    #17 gehorsam, Jul 20, 2016
    Ya the last one I was wayyyy into subspace and scared shitless. I was bawling begging her not to do that and apologizing profusely.

    The thing that got me into that predicament is I called her a cunt. We were arguing about something and it got heated which is very very rare. I was storming out the door to go work in the garage and calm down. But on my way out I called her a " fuckin bitchy cunt". I've never talked to her like that ever and have not since. She extracted her revenge/punishment that night. The strap on she threatened me with is her biggest one I've never been able to take it. We got it by accident ordering on line(way bigger than their description) so I was horrified by her using it even more so due to my position I was in.
     
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    #18 ChasteHubby2015, Jul 20, 2016
    At first I thought the punishment was too much, but after reading what you said to her, I think it's completely justified.
     
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    #19 ChasteHubby2015, Jul 20, 2016
    @MistressDee Ma'am, I would say find out what he hates and use it. Whatever it is, it should be painful enough that it is not enjoyable whatsoever and strikes fear in his heart. Do you extend his length of time in chastity when he misbehaves?
     
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    #20 Sissy4dee, Jul 20, 2016
    Mistress Dee has me locked up 24/7
     
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    #21 MistressDee, Jul 21, 2016
    @ChasteHubby2015 i have considered lengthening his time in the chastity, but after a lot of thought i have decided that he may not ever get a release so lengthening him time may not be very useful. He is a very hard person to punish as he enjoys most things people would hate
     
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    #22 lock667, Jul 21, 2016
    Deny him chastity, but also forbid him an orgasm
     
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    #23 ChasteHubby2015, Jul 21, 2016
    Yes ma'am, I understand now, thank you for explaining. I wasn't aware you were considering permanent denial for him, I think it's a great idea if you feel it beneficial. I suppose implementing some of the extremely painful punishments described above would be best. Hopefully though the permanent denial will keep him in a more docile state to where he won't misbehave so much. That and the threat of punishment.
     
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    #24 gehorsam, Jul 21, 2016
    Ya in the 9 years we've been together I can only remember us having an actual argument only a couple times. That was the last one I don't remember what we were arguing about but I remember I was madder than ever. I thought I had said it under my breath apparently I was very wrong and she heard me mumbling as I went out the door. She wasn't mad I called her a bitch it was the fact I added the c on the end of the sentence.
     
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    #25 Dufty, Jul 21, 2016
    A good canning and a KBT can help to focus the mind. For me the real killer is chastity with no teasing.
     
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