Let me start by saying we are definitely a switch couple. But, my boy was told he wouldn't be allowed a full orgasm until Sunday. We were playing last night (he was out of his cage) and when I said I was done he stopped, momentarily. Then he got a devilish look in his eye and told me what we wanted to do to me and then proceeded to do it. I very much enjoyed but now I need to come up with a good punishment for him since he disobeyed me. Tell me what you would do.
You don't give alot of details, but it sounds like he ejaculated without permission. If BF ejaculates without permission, he has to eat it and gets 25 strokes of the tawse. It looks like it's not possible for your boy to eat that ejaculate, but there was one time when BF ejaculated without permission and I couldn't find where it landed to make him eat it. What I did was take off his restraints and make him do supervised masturbation. He doesn't like it because I make him look at porn he doesn't like, like gay or trans. He has to ask permission to ejaculate, which I usually deny, but, he ejaculates anyhow. This time, I gave him 50 strokes of the tawse, Too bad he didn't miss the count, he would have gotten 'help' counting from where he missed the count, then we would have started all over again with me 'helping' him count. You could make him do supervised masturbation and tell him he can't ejaculate without asking and getting permission. Deny him permission, and when he does, make him eat it and if you don't have a tawse, use a belt of something and make him count the strokes. If he gets the count wrong, make him finish and start again. 'Help' him count if he does it wrong. When I h ave to 'help' BF count, it goes ilke this: Instead of saying '8' after '7', he says '9'. I stop an ask him what he said. Whether or not he catches his mistake, he gets a couple of swats, then 'SWAT!' where were we?' '7, Ma'am' SWAT! '7' SWAT! SWAT! 'What comes after 7?' '8, Ma'am' SWAT! '8' SWAT! We go all the way to 25 like that, then we start again. He winds up getting 3 strokes for every one he counts.
I like Cecilia B's suggestion of making him eat his cum from a supervised masturbation. But you restrain him, and you stroke him. Have a good grip on his balls, and after you finally let him cum, squeeze the balls until he begs you to let him eat the cum. Then the spanking can begin. I like the idea of making him participate verbally, making him say why he is being punished, promise not to do it again, etc.
Act like you're going to let it go, like it was no big deal. Then tease the hell out of him for 7 to 10 days with his cage on and make sure he pleasures you as much as you want. Then at the end of the 7 to 10 days make him think you're going to give him a release. Take him to the bedroom and tell him to strip down. You go to the bathroom to get yourself ready and when you come out you'll be wearing a strap-on. Tell him that if he cums with his cage on while you're pegging him that you will unlock him to have his way with you. If he doesn't cum then he's going to be locked up for another week. If strapons aren't your thing then you can get one of those suction cup dildos and make him do it to himself against the wall and count the number of insertions until you think he's had enough or he cums. Totally my fantasy but I think it'd be fun
4 days .... what to do for missing 4 days ... I would suggest that he be chaste for the remainder of the term and then tie him down and do tease and denial for a long period of time, and then let him explode, and once he is done do post-orgasmic torture on him. As a kicker (and lightly mind you) .... I would use a very fine brush or sandpaper on his head. If you have a ball gag .... I would highly recommend it ... and I would also suggest a set of headphones with music turned up for you .... you drive the intensity based up on the intensity of the crime.
Get a pair of old gloves and some sandpaper. Cut out the palm of the glovse (or have him do it...even better!) and place the sandpaper there. Now, whenever he gets horny demand him to tell you. Place the gloves on him, handcuff his hands so the gloves can't come off. Make him masturbate. He will be punishing himself in a way he won't soon forget! He will learn his lesson very quickly! Of course, make him consume his orgasm afterwards. "What comes out must go back in!"
Hello FlaMistress. This is how I know I used to be dominant way back in the day because to me this would be very easy to deal with. Perhaps it is because I am a man and know how we are wired physically and mentally. Anyway, I assume yo have a pretty good idea what turns his crank and what doesn't. First and foremost, at the end of whatever you do you need to make sure it sends the message that he IS NOT allowed to have an orgasm unless you permit it and that if he does in the future punishment like you are delivering will only be worse. Combine elements of things he may dislike, things he wishes he does not like but cannot resist and an overload of pleasure...tell him you are "conditioning" him to like these things. The mind is the biggest sex organ and telling him you are popping the hood and tinkering with the wiring can be overpowering. Above all you CANNOT allow him sexual release while doing this. You need to leave him an aching, dripping mess. Perhaps gay porn repulses him? Or maybe crossdressing? Perhaps you restrain him in some way and remove some body hair he currently has as a lasting reminder of his overstepping his boundary? Then gag him and plug him and make him watch some gay porn while you play with his nipples and talk dirty to him...he will leak then you can tease him that perhaps he needs be overpowered and fucked like that...and like he did with you. The erotic realm is a virtual playground with endless possibilities. Use your imagination. It really is very easy to conquer a man--I should know! Thank God my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder is timid...I am the type that can be very malleable sexually. allaboutHer
Tie him and epilate his pubic hair. Just a little at a time, drawn out for an excruciating amount of time. Tell him to beg you to stop but just giggle at him like his pain and suffering is hilarious. I epilate all my body hair myself because Mistress Wife of mine finds even a small amount of hair on my body disgusting. But the first couple dozen times doing my groin was pure torture.
Thank you all for your suggestions. He knows there is a punishment coming and now I have some ideas to work with
well some of the ones am ok but some of them sound horrible. and i glad that my Mistress aint asked evrbody on here how i'm punish.
A very easy idea, I bet you own a hair brush. Turn it backwards and smack his balls very hard multiple times untill he crys. Works on me. And let's say it don't happen very often.