I need some advice.

I am about to get up and pack my suitcase. One more morning at work then I will have a two hour drive back home to my Wife. I cannot wait. I have been getting more and more turned on as the week has gone on and it is at times like this I am thankful for my Holy Trainer. I have reached my longest ever period of denial and I am pretty sure my Wife is going to find out whether me begging her to let me cum turns her on or not! At the very least I will be pleading with her to let me pleasure her.

I will be back tonight or tomorrow to let you all know how things go.

 

I really like the sound of that @sissybitch and I think my Wife would like it as well as it would not mean me pulling out and ruining her flow. I shall be showing her this thread if the opportunity arises tomorrow.

@allaboutHer thanks, as if I wasn't feeling horny enough as it is, now I have your fantasy boiling inside my head!

The first part of my journey is over, I have made it home. Now I just need to wait for my Wife to get home from work then my weekend can truly begin. I texted my Wife before starting the 2 hour drive home telling her that after a week in a hotel room and after six weeks since my last orgasm I think I have reached the point of begging to be allowed to pleasure her! I'm getting hard in my HT just thinking about her!

 

So, it is 05.37 and I have woken up, partly because of hay fever (atchoo! Atchoo!) but mostly because of a powerful morning erection squashing my penis in its Holy Trainer. This always happens (the attempted erection, not the hay fever!) after my Wife has teased and denied me and boy, did I get teased and denied last night!

I am going to go through the advice that I have received with my Wife later today. One of my hopes is she now sees how joining the Mansion is beneficial. I think all the fantasists put her off and, like other females, in particular cuckold and ultra femdom fantasists made her uncomfortable. She also has struggled to discuss what turns her on with me, her husband of 26 years, so discussing this with complete strangers was also something she could not imagine doing or understand the need for.

Last night was incredible by the way. After a week away and a week before that of illness, and a week before that of travel and no sexual contact, we had an evening where we spent a few hours in bed. We had a shower together where I ended up with my Holy trainer jutting out from my abdomen with a ridiculously huge contained erection, my legs trembling and my thought processes almost completely shut down. On our bed I massaged her back and legs, then brought her orally to a fabulous orgasm. My Wife then had fun teasing me when I was trying to do my German lessons. For the first time since we started using chastity I beg her to let me cum. She said 'tough!' Then when I said I was feeling really turned on she told me that in that case it was time to go downstairs and get a drink!

As you can tell there is no doubt that we will continue with chastity, or with tease and denial. She obviously enjoys this and I know I don't want to go back. I just want to sort out some fine details so she is having even more fun than she already is.

 

Thank you for all of the advice. I have read this entire thread to my Wife and discussed some of the points and ideas that it brought up. I have told my Wife before how much help I have received at the Mansion but this was her first experience of this. She thinks you are all very sweet and found your ideas interesting. She was moved by the comment left by @KatyTwilight and giggled at several of the other comments.

She has confirmed that I pretty much got the situation correctly presented. I asked her how often she has wished we could have made love and in the seven weeks since my last orgasm there has been two occasions when she felt that it would have been good. One of those times was as a result of getting turned on while she was teasing me, one just as a random moment when she suddenly became horny. You can imagine how I feel now knowing there were two missed occasions whe we could have made love but we didn't! Oh well.

She likes the idea of the use of ruined orgasms to help me last long enough but she does like it when I cum through penetrative sex. As many suggested we both think a period of mix and match is going to be approached to see us over the next few months. She agreed that I had remembered correctly that she wasn't happy with the idea of banding as a method, but at least she now knows that I would be willing to do this for her, with @Lady De providing guidance.

My Wife is having a nap now but I am going to show her the tumblr of @keephimcaged later this evening. I think that my Wife thinks in very similar ways as they do, just with a few years less experience. My Wife is horrified by the idea of cuckoldry for instance, and is more into this as a way of having fun within a loving relationship than going full femdom. On our walk this morning I told her that keephimcaged's tumblr is basically a window into my mind, so it will be interesting to see what she thinks.

Obviously this is still early days regarding our chastity journey but I do appreciate all of your input.

 

The issue would be getting some in Europe. Has anyone ever managed to get some? I would be willing to pay that amount quite happily.

 

Unfortunately real life (an argument between my Wife and our 19 year old son) curtailed our planned evenings entertainment, so we will leave the blog until next Weekend.

I love the fact that in your Tumblr the usual collection of reblogged captioned images are mixed up with some really good pieces of writing. I love how forthright you are, shooting down in flames some of the recent fantasists who left comments and asked idiotic questions. Also the comments you add to some of the reblogged images and videos add a personal touch that make all the difference.