So my mistress and I ordered my first cage and it arrived. I just can't get it on. It is a silicone device. The idea is to first get the silicone one piece ring over my shaft and balls. The "cage" then attaches to the ring. I can't get it over all my junk no matter how hard I try. It is the biggest ring in the kit. Trust me, I should not be too big for this thing. Any advice on how to get it on?
Patience young Jedi, patience. Seriously - my thread in The Vault is full of the difficulties of fitting into a chastity device. (I'm on number four in not very long...) The best thing to do is take time and come back to it when your body is not at all 'excited' abut the prospect. That and learn where you can push, pull and prod your body... The first time I wore the device I'm in now it took about four-and-a-half hours over one afternoon to fit a couple of days ago. But tonight I did it in less than fifteen... More practically can you tell us the make and model of your device? Then one of the more experienced members of the site might be able to give you some more practical advice. Good luck - and don't get too frustrated when fitting. Last night I threw a fairly big wobbly about the whole thing, but less than 24 hours later I've made sudden and great progress (in terms of fitting). It's annoying getting stuck with the fitting. But give it a while(!) and you'll get past it.
How are you trying to do this? The most common method is to get one ball through first, then the other, then finally tuck the penis in. You might need some lube to get things going at first, or try in a hot shower when things are looser.
Finally got it on. I had to tie a shoe string around my junk. I then ran the ends of the string through the ring. While I stretched the ring out as far as possible, my mistress pulled my junk through the ring. I had tied the string so that it could easily be undone. The whole process took about 2 minutes once we figured it out. Now I just have to figure out how to hide the bulge. I am very small in that area and a bulge would really throw some flags if people saw one. Thanks for the advice.
Hi Your bulge is more in your head than anything! Apart from being seen naked but caged or in speedos ,if any body is studying the fit of your trousers that closely just smile ! The whole world is impressed with big willys so just enjoy the admiration xx. You will get used to fitting this and any future device . A a lot is getting the right one shape and size .B not get excited or too much lube and stuff . Happy Christmas Xx Wendy
Managed 3 hours in the device last night. This device will be adequate for now but we are already shopping for a steel device with a hinged ring.
using some light lubrication can help or try the sock method. Steel device will be better in the long run. Amazon and dhgate have some very well priced cheap devices. Just make sure you measure yourself and get something that fits you when flaccid. If your not sure how to measure yourself just search, there are plenty of threads on how to do it
Often known as the stocking method http://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/my-1st-day.3080/#post-35898
Is that not what they call a learning curve? Or Rite of Passage? @Lucy Good advice, as always, though
I started using Johnson's Baby Gel to get the tiny dick into it's tiny cage. Baby gel for a baby dick, right? It slides right in really easy, and without it, it just won't go in. It's so easy, I'm considering going a couple of sizes smaller on the diameter of my cage. There are other manufacturers of baby gel, and they're all cheap at under $5.00 for a 6 ounce bottle at any drug store. It's the best thing I've found to get me caged, and it only takes me about 2 minutes to get everything on.
what kind of device is it? Since you said silicone I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say a Bon device? I had tried one of those and did find it very difficult to put on and it did create a large bulge in my pants. You might want to try another device that is easier to work with. Alot of people start out on the CB6000 or CB6000s depending on your flaccid length. This is a good starter device with multiple set ups and adjustments possible.
Miss Amanda actually walked me through it and I can now get it on very easily. Thank you so much Miss Amanda!
The lube I use now is raw UN-processed Shea butter. It's extremely nourishing for the skin, and being naturally thick, sticks around all day. Great for avoiding that red ring around your junk. Best part is there are no chemicals in it that may not be terribly good for your health.
It looks like my first device is a bust. The largest ring is too large. My little stuff can shrink out the back. The ring that is smaller is too constricting. It's not safe. Very disappointed.
Try measuring yourself with some string at all different times and levels of hardness and flaccidity. Tie it, then measure. Make sure you have an accurate representation of what size you actually need, then get a ring that size. You can also get a sizing kit very cheaply from Mature Metal that will do the same. A bit more convenient. But even then you have to be very careful. I got a size I thought would work well from them, and it turned out being too big. Now I have an inexpensive stainless steel device that I have modified a bit (got a different ring and filed it down to fit the cage). Also have a cable I fashioned to go around my waist to hold the cage in place so I can't pull out the back. Check out my pictures.