Average locked up time

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Metalman, Sep 25, 2015.

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How long on average do you stay locked up?

  1. Just a few hours of fun...

    8 vote(s)
    6.8%
  2. I am in and out, depending on activities (sport, work, sleep...)

    14 vote(s)
    11.9%
  3. 24/7 - I count by days (2-13)

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    33.1%
  4. 24/7 - I count it in weeks (2-7)

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    25.4%
  5. 24/7 - I am locked for 2 months at a time or more

    21 vote(s)
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  6. 24/7 - I am locked permanently. No more release, thank you.

    6 vote(s)
    5.1%
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  1. Metalman
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    Hello,

    I am really interested in other's chastity experience, and how long they stay locked up.
    If you are unlocked every once in a while for cleaning or teasing, I would not count it.

    Please, this is not a competition, and nobody has to know your answer.
    It would be nice to have an accurate representation of our community, so please be truthful :D

    Thanks!
     
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    for me is every 7 days,24-7, wish to stay longer in cage but she decide,just had a surgery for bellybutton ernia,no PIV for a while as per doctor 4 weeks,my wish becomes true!
     
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    She will keep me locked about 2 weeks most of the time.Sometimes we don't play at it at all.Right now I have been locked for 35 days,going to be breaking a record because it's not looking good for at least 10 more days.
     
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    No idea. in the past, I've been locked up 24/7 with no releases for over a year. Then I took a year off from chastity. I'm locked for short periods when I'm getting broken in after not wearing it awhile. I'm currently at almost 7 weeks, and no idea when I'll be unlocked again. Maybe not for two years.
     
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    Well you have been locked for more than a year.
    Soon you will be 2 months and counting...
    I think it safe to say that you count in months :cool:
     
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    I have given up on finding a device which fits me, so I'm not technically locked. In terms of orgasm denial I was last permitted to have a full orgasm on the 17. August which makes it a little over 5 weeks. My girlfriend loves the power she has over me and how she can turn me into a horny mess for two days by just teasing me a little with my fantasies and stuff. I'm moving in with her in a week so we will see how this game develops then - at the moment, no release in sight. Partly loving it and wanting to keep this whole game up indefinetely, partly becoming just really desperate.
     
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    We are seeing New records every day for us. My lock was snapped shut 3 weeks ago, orgasmed a week before. But my queen put the keys into her fireproof file safe and swears they will not be used again until July 2017.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    You need another option: Not at all - I'm the keyholder!
     
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    I am required to wear the cage to prevent wanking when Mistress is at work each day. If I complete my To Do list, when she comes home from work, she unlocks me. If not, there's always tomorrow. I know this sounds wimpy to long termers, but that's just our relationship and we are both quite pleased with it!
     
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    i am let out when we goes outside cos i tucks then and then there no lumps. In the house i'm always lock up.
     
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    My wife has really taken to chastity so I am locked 24/7 and she allows an ogasm every 6 months .The longer im locked the more my wife loves it and the tougher she makes it for me ...a win win :)
     
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    I suppose it was the most difficult.
     
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    No, I masturbated furiously throughout. I needed a break and didn't give chastity much thought. Now that I'm securely locked up again, I try not to give masturbation much thought. But having been locked for a year, then able to resume my old habit, it makes me feel more able to commit to future long-term periods of chastity. I've been there, done it, and had no aftereffects because of it.
     
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    It's funny how you always want more isn't it. Yesterday I talked to my girlfriend about my denial period (5 weeks as I said) which she wanted to end in about a week. Never thought this was going to happen but i don't want this to end. I really like being this horny all the time, it's also a big part with exploring my own sexuality. Discovering fetishes and things I like I hadn't dreamt about a few months back.

    So I talked to her with the following results. Firstly, I have no idea when she will release me, but it will take some time - probably not within the next month. Secondly, if I'm finally allowed to have a full orgasm, it doesn't mean we're ending the game there. Probably not going to be regular sex I think, maybe something more humiliating. Also we're thinking about a game: for example, 4 weeks of denial would earn me a humiliating orgasm with her, something like a footjob... about 8 weeks would earn me regular piv sex. The list goes on to rewards which would take me half a year and mostly involve some special fetishes. To think that I wanted this, as a guy who could masturbate 5 times a day... That's the evil thing, once into a period of orgasm control and denial you just don't want it to stop, you always want to take it further because it fulfills this special fantasy - which altogether makes you want it even more. ^^
     
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    Interesting idea - try to compare :)
    No, I personally - I do not want to try, I still remember. I prefer to continue after a year (13 months now).
    I had my first pleasant feeling after 6 weeks only...
    Do not be afraid to extend the denial.
     
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    Max I've been locked up so far is a week.
     
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    I'm not voting yet. I want to see if I go over 7 weeks or not first, since I'm just beginning.
     
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    I wonder if the fact that I'm not actually locked changes the sensation a lot. I'm not permitted to orgasm but as this whole thing arouses me very much I'm edging myself a lot. I'm sure it would be totally different to be locked 6 weeks straight. Not sure if I would be able to cope with that.
     
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    Yes, it's very different.
    The device also prevents the involuntary ejaculation. The device allows other sexual activity.

    If you get the ones feeling, you'll find them very interesting .... You'll start to try more and more ... Be careful.
     
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    In my best relationship we lived some distance away from each other. I was permanently locked, always when we were apart, but I would be let out when together if ever she felt like it and we'd do everything and anything we/she wanted sometimes just like any vanilla couple, the only difference was I would never ask to come and she would rarely let me.
     
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    Locked up permanently since November 1, 2014
    No hope for release in the next few years
     
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    Longest I've been locked is almost 3 weeks. I'm currently on the 10th day of the current lockup period and horny as hell with blue balls. The deal is I don't know when I'll be released next, but on past experiences it will probably be in the next week or so. We have a weekend away panned in just over two weeks so it would be great to remain locked and denied until then.

    Thing is though it states in our contract she is in charge and makes all the rules including length of lock up time and whether I have an orgasm or not, so I cant really influence her without topping from the bottom which is something I am prone to doing and pisses her off.

    I'd love to go further and see if I can last until my birthday in January.
     
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    I love my MM Jailbird but for how good it is, it still gets in the way of going to the gym (I do crossfit and that is a little too much to do while caged). It only comes off just before I leave and goes back on as soon as I return though so it is still on the other 23 hours / day and only on gym days. It does provide an additional pleasant motivation to exercise though. Besides the actual wear time, the period between orgasms is fluid, anywhere between a few days and three/four weeks.
     
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    I have just been unlocked. My birthday in January 22nd, and I had the fantasy to remain locked until then :rolleyes:
    Although I fantasized about it, that would have been sooo long :confused:
    I am not sure I can go 4 months like that. That's a very different level!
     
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    It's also about pushing limits, isn't it? Your keyholder taking things a bit further each time maybe - keeping things exciting ;)
     
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