playing with a virtual keyholder

No way. That milk tasted soooooo good that morning!

Maybe you need a ball-trap device with some Kali's teeth inside. You wont want to be getting erections at all let alone giving it a good shake.

 

You say that like its some kind of problem. You'd get used to it.

 

I see both points of view described above.
When I discovered just how easy it was to pull out, or orgazm without even pulling out, at that molment it all seems so fake and pointless.
However.... the idea that I wear a cage which prevents me from having full contact or control whenever I want and at a minimum makes it difficult to orgasm usually producing a sub standard one at best. That is something I can hold onto and really enjoy.
Furthermore. My wife wkll occasionally turn to me, look into my eyes and directly ask Have you been behaving yourself? I dont have it in me to flat out lie to her face, she could tell if I did, and I wouldnt want to. So the idea of total control just became very real when my wife makes it that way.