Hi everyone, my name is B. I've been with my partner for 7 years, but collared him January 1st of this year. Before that, we'd played with the idea of chastity on and off - but we've been far more serious about it since January. We're still working on the ins & outs of how to get to where we want to get. I'm here mostly to learn from other established females. I'm looking forward to corresponding with all of you!
Welcome B, as well as ideas from other Mistresses, you can also get a good view of what your partner can expect to go through from many of the chaste males here. We cover many different roles from permanently denied slaves through to devoted husbands who simply want to prove their loyalty to their wife. There really are no rules on how it is supposed to work. What ever works for you is what is right.
Welcome B - I am sure you will find the site and members her very friendly and helpful. I think the main thing when working on "the ins and outs" is that more in than out is the way to go
Welcome and enjoy! You'll find all sorts of info here to help you get wherever you want to be! The sky's the limit....
@Ms Sirena B Sorry for the delay, Welcome to the Mansion, and you too @purpleswordfish . You are both most welcome.
@Ms Sirena B: Haha looks that way! Wanna be my first friend? I don't want all the other cool chastity peeps laughing at me @Mistress B: Thanks hun, glad to be here
There's tons here all right! Just now I had a quick look at your blog - nice one, though I don't blog myself. I guess it depends where you want to be. I think the one in early Jan (?12th) hits it on the head. It all depends what you want. Give him PIV sex and he's a lot less compliant afterwards having been satisfied. But of course you need to be satisfied yourself. So either you take the result as a downside or decide you can get what you want some other way. Your choice......LOL! Either way, if you want to increase his frustration you can add the spike strip to the jailbird, and give him a V tab, to pile on the pressure down there - and/or you can have him log on suitable websites or go to a strip show just to give him that what-do-you-want-well-you-can't-have-it experience, in spades!