Who's still penetrante

I know it's to each their own and all that but I don't really understand why people wouldn't want to have penetrative sex. It's something I will never give up no matter what.... Orgasms, yes, I'm happy to completely give that over to my other half's better judgement but if the deal was no sex then i'd say no deal.

Just my opinion, btw. Like I said, to each their own.

 

I'm moving in that direction with my husband.

 

Either way, whatever she prefers. It seems that there might be a stronger love connection with "piv", and a somewhat stronger D/s connection with hand job, but I guess it's not necessarily that way. Depends on which she wants.

 

Intercourse is highly overrated -especially if you are on the feminine side. much more enjoyable to be on the receiving end or to use a vibrator.
My cums are sans erection and ejaculate so my opinion is probably not that of most others.

 

However my wife allows it.

 

I do whatever Ma'am wants, but it's been about 4 months since I last penetrated her (other than with a strap on), and I don't expect or want to again, not that my wishes matter.
It's really strange, but I know she never enjoys it, and I don't feel I deserve it. I used to get off so quickly and then wouldn't be as attentive to giving Ma'am her enjoyment that now I much prefer making sure she gets hers via either oral, strap on, or usually vibrator, and then I love the anticipation of finding out if she's going to let me out or let me cum in my cage. Usually when she's done she's actually at her most dominant and tells me we can hold each other but that's it, and I LOVE being told no in that moment. My heart it fluttering now thinking about it.

 

i will admit that i absolutely LOVE to orgasm during penetration & look forward to it if i am ever permitted to do it again. i lost track of when i was last able to do so & believe it was early 2012. There are a few reasons i have not, such as we have very little privacy with a child, my Wife was never someone who needed a lot of sex, & being 52 years old i have been unable to perform sexually for Her like i used to. There are times i can get very hard but it does not last & i lose my erection before i can bring my Wife to orgasm. i am going to make a doctor's appointment & possibly get viagra or similar if nothing else is wrong. Until then i remain locked & either pleasure Her orally or with a strap on or even use her vibrator to stimulate Her.