At 6pm my girlfriend came home. i was naked execpt for my cage. (as i must be when home) i made her a quick coffee then, she put a thick plug in my arse, kissed me and said "ill be home around 11, dont you dare take it out till i get home!" its been in for an hour now, it felt good up until 5 minutes ago. now an ache has set in. clenching and relaxing alternatly is helping a little. How am i gonna last another 4 hours. I've worn a plug for about an hour in the past but it was a much smaller plug.
A suggestion for Your Lady; locking plug harnesses are readily available to remove any element of choice Madam frequently uses a plug, even overnight. Most humiliating at work!
It's now 915pm. This is the longest I've ever been plugged. About 2 hours to go till she gets home. I think we need to look into different plugs. This one is quite uncomfortable and rough at the base
The stainless steel jewelled plugs are great for long term wear, i have ben wearring mine daily for over 5 years now.I would recomend the larger one as the samll one kept sliding into me and it also seemed to be uncomfortable for long term wear.Keep it lubed with skin lotion as it gets dry and after awhile you wont evan no your wearring it .After i do my make up and get dressed for the day its part of my routine...love it xo
The one we have is about 5 inches long. Impossible to sit down with it. A shorter thick one may work better. I'll look into the ones you suggested. Thank you
I was told last night that I will never put my cock inside her again and that I will only ever cum with a cock/dildo in my bum. She has seen how much I've been enjoying anal and the last time I was allowed to put it in her, I didn't cum. She got really upset and told I will be her bitch from here on. She made me suck a dildo last night too which she has never done before. I am "hetrosexual" but the way she uses her strapon makes my whole body quiver.
Njoy plugs are by far the best for long term wear. I am frequently required to wear one for extended periods of time. The key is good lube.
I am wanting to use a plug on my sub when we go out and especially when we go dancing. Any suggestions from those of you experienced with this type of wear would be appreciated. I have looked at stainless ones but was told they may be too heavy. Also, would a vibrating one be better?
I wish you luck as bottoms are funny things and get used to a particular toy and then want bigger. Keeping one in for some time is a nice idea but few plugs are self retaining du to the neck being too short. The adventure @philfred had should be read as a cautionary tail . Also wearing one for hours ie over night could lead to the muscles becoming semi permanently a bit slack. Whereas a couple or more hours play sessions and things will return to normal very quickly ie an hour or less. Be good to know how you get on but a plug harness is almost certainly going to be on your shopping list and even then they have to be very tight . Xx Wendy
I wear an Njoy out and about with Mistress frequently, Wendy has very valid concerns and I can obviously only speak for myself. The Njoy has a unique shape and very thin stem so muscle stretch is a minimum the weight of the small is not bad at all. I have never felt like I was going to "lose" it. The other great thing about the Njoy is it is remarkably comfortable even sitting. The handle makes a very safe flared base. Use a good lube and for very extended wear a re-lube might be warranted - Mistress likes to send me to the bathroom to remove,re-lube and replace. Can be a little nerve racking depending on the establishment.
Thank you for this information.. I have looked at the Njoy ones, I may have to try that. Your feedback is appreciated!