Searching for female keyholder

Welcome to the search for the holy grail!

But, if you haven't already, i would suggest you start by looking into some local munches.

All the best of luck in your search chap!

 

It really isn't easy to find someone. Good luck. I think most successful relationships don't start with someone actually looking for a chastity partner, but with the introduction of chastity play into an existing relationship. That's how it was for me, anyway. Like I say, very best of luck.

 

I am open to online but I don't know much about the UK community. I am a lifestyle femdom living in kinky San Francisco if fate ever gives you the opportunity to travel.

 

Why do most subs specify a female key holder ? It probably is against our sex discrimination laws.

After all you are only wanting someone to look after your keys

Xx Wendy

 

Personally I wouldn't care who is holding my keys as long as I can't get them.

 

I totally agree with Kirk, you are doing things the difficult way, having said that, there really isnt an easy way, especially if you want interaction. I hold keys, but Im only a hands on mistress to my real life sub, who is my partner. I dont mind key holding, but dont have time or inclination to do anything other than online, choice is yours

 

The holy grail indeed! Even when there is a relationship watch her run for the hills when she learns your real desires.

 

i thinks that men looks for Ladies to have there keys cos they really wants some other things as well. Naughty men.

 

You're probably right but I'm looking for a lady as well. I think I'd feel awkward allowing another male to have control of my most prized possession.

 

Im married and my wife and I don't care who controls the key for me, female or male. Truthfully, a male keyholder is usually a lot more creative!

 

I'm kind of new to this, and wasn't even sure about a key holder until I had mine on a couple days. I only got it to try to control my masterbation. But since I've worn it I've realized someone else's help could be nice instead of depending on my self control. I can also see an advantage with the key holder being female, that is if she's also interested in me. So I guess I'm curious about how a male key holder would be more creative? I suppose I'm totally open to the idea it just never occurred to me.

Thanks, Scott

 

But the emotional torture of your mistress with another is missing in such circumstances but I can understand the craving for control taking over in a situation where there are so few female key holders.

 

i wud not like working as a maid for a man as much i don't think cos they am very untidy and i wud have lots more to do and when i do it all nice they wud prob mess it all up again and they stronger than Ladies and if i was naughty they wud hit me a lot harder.

 

I wouldn't be totally against a male key holder, if that was all he was doing. I don't know that I could easily be submissive for another male. I think that would be the worst form of humiliation. I may be looking into this too deeply or too seriously.

Scott