I started 2-10-21. This started on a whim when I showed a lock the cock page with a steel cage to my wife, she said I need that because I masterbate too much. So I decided to go to a local adult store and bought one, didn’t realize how much I’d be into it and how much it pleased my wife to give her the keys. We have sex regularly and I lock up daily for now(no sleeping in it). She wasn’t happy that I’d cum without her. So far it’s been amazing and we couldn’t be happier.
Thank you. I’m still working out sizing issues with steel cages. Mainly the base ring. 45mm left me chaffed, 50mm seems a bit too loose. I crushed the 50mm into an oval shape to close the gap a bit....seemed to help but still slides away from the body. I’m thinking custom might be the way to go.
Welcome to CM. How great that you started this journey together. I hope it brings you two the same wonderfull things it has brought my wife and me. You can find a lot of helpful information and people here.
im at 38 mm after 10 yrs of permanent chastity, and still endowed. The newest base ring is less than my girth flaccid. She has continuously been shrinking ring size. As long as She can put a finger under the ring up to Her nail, its safe. ii found you have to tuff through the chaffing to get to a tight fit, build scar tissue
thanks for the info.....I’m waiting for sizing rings to get a feel for the in between the 45mm and 50mm
obviously its gonna come down to what an individual is comfortable with maintaining. always lots of challenges.
At 38 mm, still very tight and absolutely a tear jerker if this male is hard teased, or sounded througholy.