My wife and I have played with chastity for over 8 years. I have always been more interested than her, which usually led to me topping from the bottom. She never kept me caged for more than 3 weeks, and we had difficulty getting into a groove. Recently, I have been cage free for several months now. I have come to the mindset that SHE has to take the lead for it to work properly. This morning she decided to restrain me to the bed. I figured I would get a blow job or piv. Instead, she put the base ring of my Jailbird on. Next she lubed me and began giving me a handjob. She asked if I liked what she was doing. Yesss! Then she stopped and said "try to remember what that feels like". I then found myself being forced into a cage and the lock clicked shut. She took the restraints off, laid back with her legs wide open, and told me to lick her to an orgasm. After she recovered from her O, she told me that if I'm real nice, I might get out for Valentine's day. But not to expect an orgasm. She has long term plans.
I like being given a date way in advance of when she's going to let me out, then its 50/50 whether she lets me orgasm or not
They say to "Be Careful What You Ask For" and now you will get to see! COngratulations and best wishes for a fun future!