Where does the desire for chastity come from? Personally? It comes from the desire to be the best partner I can. I firmly believe that after men ejaculate. They lose a degree of interest in pleasing their partner. So! Infrequent ejaculation/orgasm is critical to keeping men focused. Once a week is a good standard. This involves sex, intimacy and service of course. Of course! All this is determined by the Female partner. This practice is not necessarily limited to FLR relationships. Vanilla relationships can be enhanced with chastity, orgasm restriction and semen retention if? The Female want a higher degree of focus on her need, wants and desire.
We're vanilla aside from chastity, and we are not in an FLR. I like the thrill of it, and she loves knowing no-one, including me, touches my(her) cock but her. She absolutely loves denying my erections and orgasms, and constantly teases me about it in a positive way, telling all of the right things. She is the focus of most of my attention, whether she is around or she is not, and that is both of our preference. Pretty simple really.
I haven’t had piv for over 5 yrs so I suggested that my partner should lock me up in a chastity cage I’m only interested in her having the pleasure of orgasms and the control over my penis