in the last few weeks, my wife has agreed to become my keyholder and seems to have a plan which would mean i'd be allowed orgasm once a month or so. however, she's not into ass play so if i was to milk myself for health reasons with prostate massage, she's leaving it up to me. so two questions; what alternatives do people prefer? ruined orgasms, etc.? or if they self milk, any guidance on how to do it because i suspect it's not as easy as you'd hope. TIA
I used ours often when we first got it. I like the humiliation factor to doing it hands free. Wife was not a fan of how long it me to dribble
A dildo stuck to the shower wall is always nice. You can also look at e-stim devices made for the prostate.
Just thought i'd throw in that there is little (really, no) conclusive medical evidence to show that milking is necessary for prostate health. You hear a lot about it being the case on here and the internet. Decades ago, when i got my vasectomy, the urologist explained that any unused, residual ejaculate is either secreted naturally (dripping/nocturnal emissions) or absorbed harmlessly by your body. This was backed by buy my doctor about year ago, during a physical, when She saw my chastity device, my Wife (who is always with me for all medical stuff) asked if long term orgasm denile could cause any health issues. We again were told the same thing that the urologist told us. In fact, it kind of irritated me that the doctor told my Wife "he never HAS to cum". That's no lie, She actually said that! O.k so, that said, my Wife does occasionally treat me with a prostate milking even though She was told it is not necessary to avoid prostate cancer. But it is very occasional. Like maybe once every 6-8 weeks. Butt, like you, i am allowed all the anal pleasure i wish, so go ahead and get after that ass of yours with just about anything you want! i have found that the larger the diameter of the items used, the greater the chance of dripping/draining/leaking. Just what you need to drain any unneeded ejaculate. On a side note, better get used to using only your ass for pleasure, especially if your Wife starts cuckolding you! ; )
the key is to understand pelvic muscles the easiest way is to lay down for a while before trying. the fastest and most effective way for me is laying on my side after being off my feet for at least 30 minutes and a buildup for 7 days plus really helps
It’s possible that frequent ejaculation can reduce the chance of prostate cancer but nothing definitive. Studies show some correlation but not causation. I suspect that the average men who ejaculate less are unhealthy in comparison. https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/news/hsph-in-the-news/why-more-sex-may-lower-prostate-cancer-risk/
Just be sure to not beat your prostate like a punching bag or you can injure it and end up with an inflamed prostate (prostatitis).
Pressure is not great nor needed. My understanding and practice is no more than would be comfortable pressing on your eye. You can also massage the prostate externally as well.