Hello. Got my first cage and so excited!! Can't believe it took me so long!! Only need to show my Wife now...
Well done and welcome to CM. Yes, I'm the same in that I only discovered the joy of chastity locking about four years ago after many years of practising self-bondage. My wife knows nothing of my kinks as I've not shared these things with her so it would be interesting to hear how things go with your wife, or does she already know? Nice cage by the way and it looks good on your cock, she should love it!
thanks Selflocked. love how the cage looks and feels. I have sort of hinted we should explore our kinks but she is a bit uptight... will get to spend all day in it tomorrow cos she is working!!
About secrecy: how do you imagine to maintain this cage secret from now on, imagining that the cage will be held for the day? Or for just short times, when she is out?
Yeah will tell her, just need to pick the right moment. spent all day in the cage on sunday while she was away. Was going to tell her that night but she was too tired for play. will have to get a plastic one if i want to be caged 24/7 - i go through metal detectors everyday at work.
Go very slowly with her, evaluate well what will be the best time for her. Remember that everything can be ruined if the right moment is not there. This will be a shot in one. Good luck.
Told her Xtudo! Went well as I could expect. She thought it a little weird but not repulsed. I put it on after we had sex. she was worried i might do some damage lol. felt so good to have her touch my cock in the cage though. i don't think it will be 24/7. might be a case of playing for a few days on at a time as a starter, eg locked up on thursday and let out on sunday