Shock Of The New

Hello to all of you lovely creatures of the night (and perhaps of the daytime, too).

I am a 38yo polyamorous, masc leaning enby (non-binary), pansexual. This site has drawn me in out of a desire to return back to the basics after getting blissfully (for a while) thrown into the deep end as a 24/7 keyholder and dominant for my (now) ex.

As stated above, I am poly. This looks like two loving relationships with good friends at the moment. Those partners are dear to me, but they are not looking for the same kink I am, particularly kinks that aggravate their genital dysphoria.

Being non-binary myself, I am aware of and empathetic to the fact that feminization initiated internally and feminization moderated by a dominant partner have key differences but may share similarities as well. Whether you center this experience as a kink paraphilia (looking at you, sissies) or as part of a larger journey to gender transition, I am interested in learning more about what leads you to accept a lock and key.

My primary attraction is towards femmes, no matter what plumbing they have below their waist, with much more sporadic attraction to cis men.

Right now, I am interested in learning practical skills as a dominant, especially safety skills.

Thanks for taking the time to read!