Mistress Heart

In 2010, I entered a time of self-reflection that many of us have. It was at that time I realized how truly deep the need and desire to hold the reigns ran within Me.

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"Do not confuse compassion and empathy with weakness!'' ~Me

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I am innately dominant in a gentle and nurturing way but I am also silly, geeky, highly-intuitive, stern when life demands it and protective. The stereotype of a Domme being a cold, hardened bitch that is angry and unleashing her rage on others, is just that: a stereotype. Sure, those types are indeed out there but it's most certainly NOT Me.

I treat those in my circle VERY well, including those who are under My guidance and locked.

I'm out here in search of connections with those that seek power dynamics in their relationships and then everything else will fall into place from there, be it a friendship or otherwise. Without this as the foundation, nothing else will form.

This takes time. If you aren't interested in investing some of your time, then I am not an amicable fit for you.
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For me, a connection with someone starts in the mind. If I don't feel safe with someone or feel a connection, then I'm not advancing onto anything kinky no matter how real and strong any carnal feelings may be.
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Random Stuff

*My favourite show is Battlestar Galatica

*I am a theist that embraces people of ALL walks of life, cultures, and religions. I have a strict rule of ''Don't shove your beliefs at me and I won't preach about mine.''

*Silliness is a gift and I embrace it often

*I identify as ENM

*I am a vehement ally to the trans community. However, I am straight and have no interest in keyholding for or dating trans women, as a result of this. Friendships are VERY much welcome with anyone though regardless of how they identify. <3
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NO THANKS!!!

*Cigarettes
*People that have no interest in what works for me and are only pushing their own agenda. Mutual and healthy friendships/partnerships have to be a two-way street!
*One night stands
*Pushing my buttons to get a rise out of me. Trust me, I don't respond to that. I retreat instead. You will NOT win at that game with me and it will push Me away
*A running stream of profanity (We all let a few cuss words go from time to time , including myself, but I try and filter myself when I'm out and about.)
*A lack of manners.
*One minute men, unless you can handle being laughed at.

If you are intrigued by what you've read, feel free to drop Me a line and tell Me about yourself. I am not on very often so if it takes a while to hear back from Me, be patient, please.

If you've read this far, then you are ahead of most by caring enough to read through people's profiles. Please reference 'pickles' in any messages you send to me including any chat room messages, so I know you read my profile.

In closing, a few of my favourite quotes are:

''You can't judge my choices without understanding my reasons.'' ~Author Unknown

''Some talk to you in their free time and some free time to talk to you.'' ~Author Unknown

''The carnal things of this world are temporary but kindness resonates eternally.'' - Me