First and foremost, thank you for taking the time to read this. My owner/key holder and I are fairly new to this lifestyle and just trying to interact with like minded people. After stumbling across femdom and bdsm when I was younger, I was instantly drawn to it. But it was something I didn’t tell anyone about for fear of judgment. One night, when she was just my wife, the topic of bdsm came up after a few drinks and we both expressed interest in exploring it. Over the next year, we had many discussion about it and would play from time to time then return to our vanilla relationship. During this time, we had traded fantasies and things we’d like to try. But compared to the amount of time I had been secretly into this, she was very new to it so some of the things I brought up were met with hesitation and flat out refusal. This led me to explore some things on my own just to see if I liked it. My usual go to was to lock myself up and wear her panties. Well, she caught me in January of 2021 when I carelessly fell asleep while locked. She came home and tried to wake me by putting her hands down my pants and discovered that I was caged and wearing her panties. I tried to rationalize and explain to her but alls she said was for me to give her the keys and get dressed. She got rid of my boxers and took me shopping for panties. She told me that she had been wanting to transition to a more permanent kind of relationship but didn’t know how to bring it up. That was the day I reluctantly agreed to do as she wanted and as time went on, we went from mild to wild. I ultimately signed a slave agreement and we have been living that ever since. (Sorry for such a long post. But if you want to know more, feel free to ask)
Positive to hear that your wife is taking it all in a stride. It is not everyday we hear of our significant other readily accept a kink such as locking up own penis and wearing the innerwear of the opposite gender. Ok, she even has a draft agreement ready..? You can tell us all about it ..slowly. The male chastity is just fascinating. It caught my attention in my late teens, become an obsession and finally, relunctantly creeps into my marriage. I am forced to embrace it.
What an amazing coincidental accident you want through. It’s just good it’s so positive. What a genuine perfect response to give you everything you’d been after. Oh god how I would have loved for my wife to be so understanding and willing all at once…
When we first talked about this, I told her that being made to wear chastity and panties was my biggest turn on. She was against the panties. Trying to save face, I never brought it up anymore and reverted back to how I satisfied my desires for the last 20 years. I will say it thrust us into roles we were unfamiliar with. She admitted that she had been wanting to push the limit and explore but she didn’t know how to approach it, which is why she the agreement (which was actually just a draft) ready.