Do you have any routines, rituals, etc. concerning domestic chores for which you are responsible? My Wife loves when I do chores fully naked and in my collar. There are not many opportunities to do chores this way because of kids but when I am alone I am always told to do it like this and send photos to my Wife. Today my Wife got this picture: Album: Life in FLR | Chastity Mansion
I will write on Post-it notes affirmations and household rules and put them on my Alpha Wife's mirror as a pledge of my dedication to her. This helps me remember the rules and protocols that I must repeat on demand. It really turns me on when I have to tell her that as the breadwinner, her word is final.
Here is a recent affirmation: You are comfortable being in charge, being dominant and being willing to correct me.
I like this alot. My wife and I already jave a locking journal in which we write love notes in, but your take on the affirmations is brilliant. My wife leaves me chores in our journal. Most of the time they are just domestic household chores like deep clean the kitchen, or dust the ceiling fans. Before we started our lifestyle, I was in charge of the chores anyway, mostly because I'm better with delegation (we have kids) and planning.
The wife puts together a honey-do list while I'm gone, and its to be done and checked off when I'm home. I'm away for two months at the moment, so the list can pile up. When home, I am responsible for the basics: dishes, garbage, etc, in addition to anything on her list. The wife prefers it done while she"s sleeping. She's a late riser. She couldn't care less if I'm dressed, nor would she know. When awake, she has little desire to see me running around naked. I wouldn't, either.
Me being an adult, 48 years old, and fully capable of noticing what needs to be done and what is a priority, she hasn’t felt the desire to hhand me a list. If there is something specific that she feels is a priority that I have not gotten around to she will mention it. Pick up and clean the house, keep the bathroom clean, keep up on laundry, take out garbage, it’s not a math test and pretty easy to figure out.
Agreed. Long before any thought of chastity or kink, I’ve always held my wife in high regard. As a responsible adult, I was already doing half of all the chores. We both work, so we both share household responsibilities. That’s what adults do. Now, I try to bargain her portion for kinky play time, which is usually not successful. I did greed. The point is, the 1950s idea of a man works and comes home to sit on his ass and not help at all is antiquated, sexist bullshit. Your way Fe is your partner in life, and your best friend, and your lover. Not a maid you get to fuck occasionally.
My responsibilities include making the bed and fetching coffee in morning, cooking dinner, serving dinner, cleaning after dinner, making coffee for next day, and whatever else I'm told to do or just needs to be done. I do all this clothed and without kink, every day. I also work full time so my wife does everything else.
I do all the things madam does not like doing, vacuuming, washing up, cleaning windows, washing, however she changed the bed and cleans the kitchen, as she says no matter what I’m told I cannot do it as well as her!
I am expected to do virtually all of the household chores (cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc). When we first started out, we had a schedule for what was to be done on which days but due to having full time jobs, kids, and various other things…keeping up with a schedule just doesn’t work. So, I just do what I can daily to keep the house as tidy and neat as possible during the week and I generally “deep” clean and catch up on big things like laundry on my days off. My wife is pretty understanding of things not getting completely finished Mon-Thurs but I have to have finish everything before I have time to myself or privileges (alcohol, time with friends, video games) on the weekends.
Living with three other adults in the house makes dressing as a maid, my preference, to do my chores impossible. So i just try to keep a mental schedule of things to do, as well as just noticing whether an extra dose of vacuuming is needed, for example. I do have certain routines of what to do at certain times of the day, but as far as wife making me a list or anything, that isn't necessary.
Absolutely. I've been expected to handle the majority of errands and household chores for years. Basically whatever my Mistress doesn't want to be bothered with doing becomes a task added onto my to-do list. I cannot say that it's something that I necessarily find thrilling or anything like that but making her life as pleasant and smooth-going as possible is my number one priority. It's a labor of love, in my mind.
Damn, I want this so much. My spouse is not the breadwinner, but makes somewhat more, as she is smarter and more ambitious than I am. I want to acknowledge her as the official head of the household and take my rightful place as her supportive, adoring male wife.