I'm not in chastity. Yet. But we're trying a dice idea. We rolled 2 dice for the amount of times we can have sex this year. I didn't get to see the result. So only she knows. She took a picture of it as proof for later and hinted I might regret that roll. She wants to roll for things like handjobs and blowjobs as well now. Have people here done similar things? Was it a fun experience?
That is exciting while rolling, but in fact that forces your KH to adjust also her desires to blind fate. My Wife prefers having control over things and she decides how many times we have sex, when and in what a form. It may work if your KH have a Bull who pleases her regularly and she does not care of sex with you at all.
Just do whatever she wants in the physical/sexual department, and stay emotionally supportive and attached. You will enjoy the physical attention you get if she is happy even if it is not directed at you. Your emotional attachment in a relationship will make the physical that much better. Play the game how she wants to play it there & everyone will be a winner. The problem is getting true opinion in play, that is something you just gotta wait and see about. Just be there for her and support her.
We sometimes play cards to see if I get released or any of the other benefits from winning. My wife jokes that I couldn't win at 21 if I was the only one playing in the round.
We have used dice too. For a while, we rolled two dice and the number was how long I had to go without orgasm. Could be 2 to 12 days. My wife let's me masturbate some, but always watches, I never do it alone. Sometimes we roll one dice, then a second one. The two multiplied is long I get to play before I have to come. So it can be as short as 1 minute or as long as 36 minutes. The first time we did, I rolled two 1's!!!
I can see this working in many ways. Evening game: 2dice/1min sand timer/make a list2-12 of things. Mostly massages, paint toenails. Only have say two things sexual. Roll n do numbered item for one min. Have a few cards pass-2X-slave for 5mins that can be tossed out as wildcards. daygame: same rules but for all day. could be wear butt plug all day. Wear nub cage instead of tha roomy one- for her-go to mall and shop for fuk me outfits. Time at the spa pampered More pts for coming back with mens numbers or photos. I could keep going.
Hi @Yearning1 You can also spin a wheel which has been modified to include things like sex, blowjobs, handjobs, cumming/not cumming, footrubs, etc etc https://wheeldecide.com/ has a wheel that can be modified. Just for the hell of it, I just modified the wheel and spun it - landed on 'he gives himself a handjob, no orgasm' lol Careful what you wish for. But as @slave-in-FLR said, rolling the dice (or spinning the wheel) leaves the outcomes up to blind fate. This might not be what She wants. But could be a fun game occasionally.