Hi All well after 2 weeks in wearing 24/7 apart from cleaning etc, we think a smaller base might be required. As we are new to this and getting started I ordered a 50mm ring and 2.28 length cage in metal. When I am completely flaccid it feels as though the base is going to fall off or one of the balls may pop out so I don't know if it's the weight or the base is too large. When I go for a wee I feel I have to pull the ring back up to the body a bit. What I don't want to do is get a smaller ring and find its too tight when pleasing mistress.
If you feel that your going to slip out then it is too big. Depending on the make there could be (ok i am Cdn, so i talking metric) 45mm, 40mm and maybe 38 but that being said do you have room to expand? Some KH's prefer you don't have room, mine doesn't. I would suggest the 45 mm that should prevent your ball popping out and not being too tight as well.
That's what i am thinking go down to a 45mm and see what happens although it'll be my bad luck that I need something in between. I have ordered a holy trainer from lockthecock which has a full set of rings so will try that when it gets here
I have a sissy friend that has the holy trainer and he loves it. Although when you get it try it with the 50mm first as a part of the cages lip slides under the top of the ring so that may make a big differnce there as well.
most folks has a ring thats to big when they start. and when they get a ring thats the rigt one they moan about it being tight but after a bit you gets use to it.
Correct. Most people oversize their devices in the beginning. You end up cutting back in all dimensions over time. Unfortunately, it is tricky to get the sizing right. You have to start somewhere, and then go up or down in size as needed.
Its easier to deal with something when you know what the problem is. I appreciate the help. Looks like its time to do some research on removing the differential. Thanks again Jack
I’ve had several CBs starting with the CB2000. I was never able to get things perfect. I ordered a MM Jailbird and got close but had to send it back a few times to get it adjusted. The thing is that as we wear a device more we learn and the more we have discussions like this the more we’re able to make sane adjustments. I got my Jailbird back yesterday and put it on. So far it feels perfect. So I’m a bit nervous as I’ll have no excuse now to not wear it as I think I finally got it perfect. The only thing left will be a PA then it’ll be totally secure. I will say that it’s taken time and it hasn’t been easy. But if one is patient and sticks with it they can get it right.
Totally agree also, same happened with me, started with a 50, went down to a 40, put some weight on, and went to a 45. It’s what works best at the time.
An update for everyone i have been wearing the 45mm since 25 July and all is good fits much nicer and I don't feel as though I'm going to slip. Sometimes it slips down a little but nowhere near as much as it did.