Over the years I’ve played with different cages and materials what not. I’ve noticed that when I’m locked up I can actually surpress the sexual urges (mind Over matter is truly a fact.) I put that energy into productive and enriching goals/behaviors/hobbies/work. I suffer from manic depression which I’m on medicated for, and it’s actually helped with that. Being caged doesn’t have to be a sexual thing or arousing. It can be a tool to help you in life. I wish all men were locked... what a happier world that would be (especially for us. )
I contemplated this with school around the corner. Concentration and focus may be of great use. Not adverse to using a tool to cheat to be productive.
I also use it o suppress sexual urges and masturbation, and I also take medication - for depression. Several others I have talked to also take medication. I wonder how many others are on medications for mental health and if there is a correlation between that and being in chastity?
Like my issues of sexual frustration and rejection by my wife. And issues I have with high libido and guilt. Even though my meds drop my libido a little, it is only when I lock up that the meds combine with the cage to help me feel more even keeled.
Long term Chastity can be very beneficial to a persons life as @KrisHawk has pointed out. We tend to first think of it as sexual but after awhile it becomes part of who you are and helps to keep you on task at what your doing. The sexual distractions of wanting to touch yourself go away since you can’t do much anyway. Yes long term Lockup can be good for you. If LUCY had her way we would all be permanently locked. Maybe she’s on the right track and someday all men will be locked.
sm and Mash are right. I am not guessing at that, I am living that. Due to her health circumstances, my wife and I cannot have intimacy. I love her more than life, so suffered in silence for many years, fighting my needs as they were becoming more and more difficult to deal with. It's not her fault, but I started to express my frustration. I consulted doctors to see if there was something they could do to me to shut off my needs. I had already been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and was on medication already. The medication helps to some degree. I spoke candidly with my doctor about the long standing situation and she was telling me I needed to see a therapist. That is when two things happened. I said no to the therapy, and I discovered chastity devices. My life has improved considerably. I am still on meds, but, along with locking myself up permanently, it has given me a lot better outlook. My wife and I get along fine, but she feels bad about the situation. I told her that is not necessary. She is relieved and happy. I am happy. Being locked has taken away the frustration for her and me. Now this is not the typical story you read on CM. But I am not typical. But I am loyal, devoted and caring to my wife. No sacrifice is too great for my love. My locked chastity cage has become what I needed for my long term ability to cope. The change in my mood has been significant. It could be your saving grace too if you deal with similar issues. Peace. 4