I finally asked for some time out after several weeks locked up. (since mid December) I was graciously un caged most of the day, teased, edged and denied. She promised to let me out, nothing else. THIS is me without my cage on....and to think I taught her a long time ago how to do this! Another week was added to my original release. YES this is me. I'll never post a picture that's not.
There's other ways to stop and even prevent whinings. I believe much more on conversation and persuasion.
But surely Joan, you must give him a little release, even a ruined orgasm...to make the Chastity real......if you use the stick all the time then the carrot will never be as sweet ever again....metaphoricaly speaking.
mmm If she has agreed to be your KH then to be so to the best of her ability she has to have full control. So it follows if she is your KH then you gave her or consented her taking full control. So and I'm just wondering here, how can you asking her for release be allowing her full control? Now I do know some of my previous partners and I'm sure there are many others in the role of Key Holder that if their lockee kept asking or nagging for release (im not talking about one offs here) the simple response would be... you want a release, here's the keys... have one and then don't mention chastity play (or life-style) again to me ever. OR... don't mention release again. You can't say you never get a choice because you always have this one ..so choose. What's it to be? I was never so motivated that I'd ask for a release but knowing that their reactions would have been as above I would't have asked anyway.
I think I know what you are saying....and given that she possibly likes him to ask and then to say no....all part of the game or programme. I think if he were told don't even ask for release or the game is over......he wouldn't ask....but would it still be fun for both? Isn't the sex better with a little teasing? If my Mistress had a zero tolerance to me begging etc I would be in a very bad way!
You are so right! If you want so bad a release maybe we can call it a game over if that is not the plot of the KH
When Mistress milks me, I am made to be docile for several days and that certainly has the effect of stopping my nagging. If just feel inert and I hate not getting to ejaculate and especially hate that empty feeling.