On my 8 night tonight lock and my 6 night strate. When you cage if full clit is hard. I lay on my back some of the time bring my knees to my chest to make it go down. Don't seem to work every time, I need you tips make it go soft. This didn't work for me lastnight very painful last night I took my cage off just cage not ring about 2am woke up at 4am soft so put cage back on. When my alarm to get up went off I felt good.