you looking for a keyholder (Netherlands)?

Hi all. I'm an older gay man and take good care of my body and mind

I love caressing, teasing, massaging, licking, hands-free cum, edging, ruined orgasms and denial.

But, perhaps a bit different, I prefer to do that with/for another caged male. I don't consider myself a sub or a dom, not interested in domination or being dominated. I love the feeling of a cage against another cage.

I'm looking for a younger male in the Groningen area, for example a university student who needs to focus on studying, to be his keyholder, to clean and shave and to give release before relocking. (No offence, but I'm not into sissy/cd.) Clean, safe, no drugs.

For mutual safety, we can exchange pics, then meet for a coffee or wine in a public place first, and if we want to take explore further, then agree on a set of rules. Trust is essential. Complete discretion promised.

(I'm fluent in Dutch and English.)