My queen and I have been in an flr for 7 years and I am wanting more from this lifestyle. I am craving more dominance in my everyday life and it’s led to some looking within. I have been thinking about my submission and if I am giving it my all. Embarrassingly I can’t say I have and have a few I am going to start working on. I need to be better at anticipating her needs. When my queen is speaking I need to be actively and properly listening. What am I doing daily to make her life easier? Being the submissive is and should be an active role and I feel I am coming up a little short in these areas and need to work on them.
Tell you you feel like you can do better but you're not sure just how and then ask her what more you can do to make her happy. Asking is the only way. so don't be hesitant.
Try practicing hypnotic conversation: http://rwddh.blogspot.com/2016/12/hypnotic-conversation.html Page 53 - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Dy9YX_uVBjGma0-54i11xwPR4SeNLvEK/view
I still believe simply asking what more can be done to further please her would be best. Alot simpler than "practicing" some new communication method. If you dig. Simple is usually better.
Asking those questions and wanting to do more for her is a sign that you are evolving in your submission to her. In my opinion, when you reach the point at which you are anticipating her needs and focusing your daily life on pleasing her and making her life better, then you are devoted to serving her versus just being submissive. There are a ton of submissives, but not many subs achieve true devotion. It is a beautiful thing! No one is perfect, and there is always room to improve and so great for you for asking those questions of yourself and working towards being devoted to your wife.
Exactly! She will gladly keep you (most likely for life) if you show her you are truly devoted to her and not just a little sub.