The Other Side Of The Coin

Well said@Mistress Jules
There is a constant stream of disgusting and irrelevant messages from idiots who think all we want to talk about is little cocks and the fact that they need to be locked.
I am tired of being used as wanking fodder.
If a few more would use their manners that would be a good start!
A name and shame thread would be amazing...
Watch out boys lol

 

Why do some guys think they can get away with this? They would not dream of talking like that to a female they had just met. Or even female they have known for a long time.
Why does a sub guy think he can talk like this to a lady because she has the title Mistress.
Its total bad manners and total disrespect. Maybe the ignore button should be used more often.

 

@Mistress Jules - With respect Mistress I like your post and know how many write to my Mistress.
@lockit - you are bang on the money no respect.

And all over the mansion there are more pleading to be locked up and for a Mistress. It still amazes me.

I get fed up with the following chats.. mine start...

Are you locked?

If they read before they post they would know the answers!
Lucy x

 

I totally agree with you that subs chatting can be so too much , disrespectful and all. My wife was almost scared off again the minute she became a member in here, - being flooded by a great number of subs with very obscene suggestions. It took me a while to make her understand that not all subs behave like that, and that I was not turning into one like these....
She has learned to close off chat, and to push offenders off, but still it must be a huge problem for all females in here. Maybe You should ask Administrators? Maybe they have ideas to help You minimize the problem?

Haven said that - I can not follow your comparison between a wish for policies on scammers and exploitation , and bad language and behavior from unpleasant subs. I my mind - You are comparing something that can not be compared. They do not level. They do not cancel each other... They remain individual problems and concerns..

Sincerly
BlueEyes

 

my two cents. Its just manners in general, no matter who you are talking to. some people just have none (manners).

 

As my wife says, men are pigs.

 

@Mistress Jules :A wannabe subbie is still only a loose male;that's why he needs a mistress to whittle his wilfulness.But I suppose you could conclude that,if he cannot even show respect,he is likely to be untrainable.

 

On the whole I find most people on here quite polite when chatting. The odd one or two that ask inappropriate questions, I just tell them that it's none of their business and end the conversation. The "ignore" facility is useful.

 

Maybe we need on "off you go" thread for the male morons on here too??? ;-)

 

For what it is worth to you - I have been treated with outmost disrespect when I joined, and I was about to leave right away. Everything that BlueEyes had tried to tell me about CM, and from what I had read in threads, seemed to be totally shattered by these extremely naughty and far too kinky males addressing me in the chat and in PM's. There has been many very nice members - of course, very nice indeed. But yes, if this site is to have more vanilla-wifes to join - and is that not exactly what so many husbands in here hope for - then this aggressive, rude and extreme approach will have to silenced somehow...

 

Just hit ignore...

 

The funny thing on here I have had a few what knickers am I wearing chats however they never get very exciting.

On another site I have pictures of me and so different are email from real girls and trans m2f and the guys who want to have some chix with dix fun .
The difference in the way they write choice of words and how conversation proceed is such a giveaway .

What they expect from being rude I don't know.

Xx Wendy

 

I cannot disagree with you ladies at all, I have received some pretty appalling chat messages also. My only consolation is knowing that IF I ever did lock their tiny dicks up, I have serious doubts that their little weenie would ever feel an erection again. If extending their lockup time was done in balance with their lack of manners and insolence, I would be throwing away their key for eternity after the first week.

 

And some strategic superglue and JB Weld if you got the chance I'd guess.....

 

The other comment I forgot to make was, it was also NOT surprising that the ones who seem to be the rude chat message senders each seem to have empty profiles. Perhaps their rudeness goes in hand with not having the intellect to fill out their profile.

 

What!? We cannot pester and bludgeon the Dommes on this site with un-solicited offers? How totally unfair! What am I just some subm........ oh, erm.

Never mind, I'll get me coat...

 

I have had some very rude people but luckily not often. I have asked them to speak nicely or I wont speak to them. A couple gave the response, "Why should I, you're not my Mistress!". No I'm not but I am a real women with real feelings who should be treated with the same respect as everyone else.

 

Gender has nothing to do with how you are treated.

These rude people only go to prove it's hard to multi task if you are playing with your willy !

Xx Wendy

 

i thinks this site is lots better than the other one. i had a lot of nasty men on that one who was nasty to me.

 

It just proves there are inconsiderate dim-wits everywhere.