Strap on harness advice please..

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    Hey my lovely CM friends. I have a quick question and hope someone can help.

    I have a harness that I use with a strap on to peg my Little Bitch (I wrote about it on my blog).

    The problem comes the day after going to town on his ass. My pelvic bone becomes very painful from it banging into me.

    I wandered if anyone could please recommend a comfy harness that has padding to stop it from bruising my body, or any tips to prevent this!

    Thank you, M x
     
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    My Wife use’s a harness that’s like briefs. They go on like underwear and have a hole and ring in them for your dildo. It’s padded inside and she loves it. Keeps the dildo tight and works excellent for a harsh thrusting without hurting or tiring her out. Wish I could say the same.
     
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    That sounds fantastic, do you know where she got it from please and what make it is? Thank you x
     
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    My wife uses this one:
    https://www.myspare.com/product/tomboi
    it’s not padded but comfortable and it holds the dildo tight against her. She stopped complaining about any after the fact pain after we started using this. I think it’s because everything is so tight and supported. It’s a really nicely made garment. I linked the manufacturer, so you can find a local supplier if you wish. Good luck.

    the same company makes several other models that look nice.
     
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    RodeoH also make brief like harnesses.
     
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    Thank you so much, this is really helpful. :) x
     
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    Thank you xx
     
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    My wife also had such problems until we bought this inexpensive crockery:

    https://www.amazon.de/gp/product/B07SKHG9C9/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

    The "flat" in the front is relatively soft and in the back it offers good support because of the lacing.

    If it goes times longer to the thing, my wife simply packs a thick panty liner underneath and then it no longer does her away and there are no bruises.

    Only the ring is quite small, I have replaced in the meantime.
     
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    We have the bumpher. We got it the same time as the panties I linked above. She thought it was great at first, but over time she stopped using it. I think it put too much pressure right on her clit and that became uncomfortable. She prefers have the wide suction base of the dildo which spreads out the force more, even though it’s not as cushy.

    one other thing about harnesses I forgot to mention last post is that the panties have a stretchy ring that goes around the base of the dildo such that there are no snaps. I think the snaps on many harnesses lead to pain and bruising for both partners. Not having snaps is a positive.
     
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    I think the bumper is the best choice there is.
    If it becomes uncomfortable due to the mentioned reason you can try to reposition it or simply change it for a common, small silicone cushion.

    Why is this better than changing the strapon itself ? Because it allows you to stay with your otherwise comfortable strapon. And finding one that sits well, does not pinch and stays in its place (no shifting) while in action is hard enough...
     
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    My Madame has really used the Spare Parts Joque without issue and she has discomfort.

    She has pounded me extensively in a variety of positions. A bit pricey but worth it she says.
     
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