As shared with you before, my engagement with chastity started a few months ago. I guess many of my friends here may recognise the story about two very hard-working people in their mid-40's: loving each other, become fully occupied and stressed with their jobs and at the same time seeking to deepen their relationship and improve their intimacy. By researching the web to find out how I could work on improvement in our relationship, chastity came across. After I made up my mind I decided to do the following: change my working style wherever I can, let private time come in and at the same time abandon masturbating and watching porn to create “my own satisfied feelings”. Now, over 5 months later, I discover that we both balance our work and private live a bit better than before. In respect of our relationship, giving my attention to my lovely wife intensified significantly. After I shared with her my “chastity fantasy” months ago, she was handling this in a very nice way and accepted this. Her first reaction was “….I knew there was something more inside of you, but I was not able to get this out…”. Once I asked her to take over full control of my orgasms, she immediately agreed. So, we’ve experimented somewhat with locking me in chastity and she developed a more dominant attitude during our intimate moments. Since that time, all my occurred orgasms were initiated and led by her. In the mean time she is enjoying a lot of massages, cuddling and intimacy from my side which we both enjoy a lot. In respect of wearing the chastity cage, she remains however a bit reluctant to instruct me in wearing the cage. She has the opinion that somewhere it might hurt me and might not be well from a heath point of view. However, she also agreed with me that we should look for a custom-made cage, so that my current “fitting issues” will be over. She is still questioning why the cage is so important. Although she enjoys our new style a lot, she is questioning sometimes typical “why questions”, as it seems that our relationship went much deeper than before once we “activated my chastity”. I’m still seeking to explain to her my desire to wear my cage more frequently, as I feel it just as very intimate once she is wearing my key and have full control over me. During our intimate moments, she loves PIV. However, during this, she started to teach me in a dominant way how to behave and control my orgasm and bring her the optimum pleasure. During our last event she trained me continuously inside her, without having an orgasm. Only when she instructed me strongly to go, I went off. Without this final instruction I felt I could have go further for hours…. So, my conclusion yet is that we started our road-trip to ”we don’t know yet”. We both enjoy her full control over my orgasms by domination as well to train me how to behave, pleasure her and denial. My orgasms are now denialed for 2-4 weeks, however I'm looking forward to longer periods. I’m anxious waiting to receive her question to become caged more frequently and for longer periods. Here, I do not want to rush her and try to avoid my impatience. I’m looking forward to your reactions and help me to guide me “where we are yet on our route”.