Yeah, I know, I'm bad at naming threads, and introduction threads? even worse! so bear with me a little, please. So, I'm a 44 years old gay guy, from CCS, Venezuela (I know. an awful country). I've always been a fan of BDSM and the leather culture, but it wasn't until 2006 I actually knew about chastity as a kink. I stumbled, by mistake, with an erotic story that mentioned an evil device called kali's bracelet (google if you don't know. It will be interesting). One thing lead to another, and I discovered this kink, and ended on the site that sells the CB6K. Pictures with men using those devices REALLY turned me on, and the prospect of giving my orgasms and erections away drove me crazy, so I went and ordered it. Heh, shipping to my country, by that year almost doubled the cost of the device. But it was worth it, it came with a complete kit of spacers and rings, it was crazy. I did many runs, my most succesful one lasted one month, but I wasn't comfortable with the device, I barely could sleep, no matter how many spacer/rings combinations I tried. So I gave up the kink afterwards (In the coming years, some events radically changed my life. For the worse, but I'm not putting them here, skip ahead almost 17 years later, to April 2023). Back in April 2023, I saw my old CB6K device in my closet, I thought on dumping it, since it was old, but what the hell, I inspected it and seemed in good state, so I choose to give it another run. I almost forgot how it was, I ran the same issues with the spacers/rings. Turns out, the ring was the problem. I had 4 rings, 40mm, 45mm, 50mm and 55mm. I usually wore the 40mm, but was too tight, it really irritated my scrotum, especially at night. tried the bigger ones, with the 50 mm It felt really good BUT I was having the testicle migration problem when it was cold, or randomly at day. But I totally forgot about the 45 mm one, that was a HUGE step ahead. I finally was comfortable on the device! I didn't even think about it, even at night. Not as tight as the 40mm one, or having the testicle flip of the the 50mm one. More things happened, including the device cracking 2.5 months later. At least now i knew what size is perfect for me. Back in November, I bought my second cage, a stainless steel one, and learned more abot the maintenance of the cage, and how important it is for the long term users. I also had a... master, who guided me in choosing the device, and setting the rules of this chastity period. He's not a keyholder, so I'm actually self locked, but with the supervision of a master. 3 months later, in February, I finally got my hands on a smaller, steel cage, so it was my first downsize. One day later I'm here. Damn, Sorry, I tend to write too much, and I left out many things I want to share on the blog section here. So, I'm happy to be here, and share about this kink, and ask questions, because I'm still a newbie. For example, downsizing, I had my first downsize this week (my current cage is the one of my avatar) and it was way better than I imagined, but progressing to smaller cages (or my ultimate dream cage, the nub one) I suppose will have its challenges and I'll have questions. Hopefully, I can ask here, or look for the answer if its already posted. Nice to meet you folks, sorry for the long wall of text.
Welcoeme to CM! It seems that, up until now, you have controlled when and for how long you wear your cage. Once you find a KeyHolder, chastity becomes much more real and your submission begins. It will be a whole new paradigm for you and you will love it! Best wishes on progressing!