I wondered if it is generally accepted that it is harder to sleep if you haven't cum and if there is a difference between having and erection and not having one because you're wearing a device. Last night my partner, KH and Mistress used my cock but didn't allow me to cum. I didn't really sleep all that well after, I wasn't wearing my device and wondered if all those hormones associated with sex kept me upin a light sleep. I know that like all men once I have cum a good sleep is imminent, so wondered if cumming doesn't break those hormones down. I also wondered if being in a device and there for not being able to get hard stops production of hormones and reduces this effect of if is masked by hard on attempts through the night?
I've noticed something similar. I wasn't in chastity but after foreplay / becoming aroused but not orgasming it is very hard to sleep and never seems like good deep sleep.
well I think the reason you don't sleep is well is ur excited and on edge it like drinking a soda and trying to go to sleep right after .
it takes me some time to get to sleep after a tease. Wife/KH will read and W/we listen to soft music for a while on the TV music channel. i start to drift off, wake enough to turn off the tv and go to sleep. This happens when i'm not unlocked. If i'm unlocked for a tease then locked backup it takes me longer, say an hour. She still reads, and W/we still listen to music.
while the pressure build up from denial takes quite a while to wear off, for me the trouble is more later during the night when I try to get an erection during my sleep when I am locked
good point.... you get use to it ...there are a lot of things to get adapt to, living in a chastity device or belt. i am in the belt for many years ,,i am use to everything ..it is like that ,,watch a blue movie ore being a cuckold ,watching your wife having sex with her boyfriend all those things are all the same and you have to get use to ,not allowed to cum when you like it or you are prevented to cum with the "help" of your chastity belt !reg. GWENY
Most of the thimes when I'm not aloud to cum my bf keeps me locked. It is hard to fall asleep after having sex with my cock still locked and uncummed.
When I am aroused, whether I'm locked or not, it's difficult to fall asleep. I have to calm down before I can fall asleep. Unlocked, that's pretty easy- just cum and go to bed. When I'm locked, it takes a good 20 minutes or so for the arousal to die down before I can relax enough to go to sleep. It's not too difficult for me to put the thoughts out of my head and calm down. I guess I have a decent amount of control over it.
Always takes me a long time to fall asleep after my wife has had her fun, its even the same after being drained through a ruined orgasm.